It’s all about being relaxed and comfortable.

To give you the extra short version, my wife was not into diapers herself. I introduced my “daddy desires” to her before I even proposed and she seemed interested but not overly. We got off to an awkward start with it and even now if she’s not into it, she’s just not going to want to wear. All this is fine with me, I consider myself the luckiest guy on earth when I think of the times she does enjoy it… I couldn’t be happier. So basically, yeah, she had to “warm up to them” and it took a while.

Don’t expect your wife to have the innate attraction to them like you and I do. It’s just not her thing. Find something that is her thing. For my wife, she desires deep meaningful conversation. I give her that and show her that I’m really interested in her thoughts and feelings, I’ll usually get rewarded sooner or later. You just have to make it about her… and she’ll be more than willing to return the favor. Good luck my friend.

You mentioned your wife wears Bambinos, was she into diapers before you got married, or did you introduce her? If you introduced her, did she like them right away or did she “warm up” to them? I recently introduced my wife to diapers and, while she was willing to try, she said there was no real attraction or excitement for her. I’m just curious. Great comment!

The neighbor girl (who I think is responsible for my “daddy” and diaper desires) was a cute little blonde, and just a little younger than myself, that I secretly had a little crush on, had the same pee issues when hiding.

I remember the whole neighborhood playing teams hide-and-seek one day. She was my teammate. We hunkered down in my best hiding spot and before I knew it she was squirming and bouncing. I kept telling her to sit still. Then she looks up at me with big welted eyes. “I peed my pants” she says. Sure enough she did.

I walked her home and handed her off to her mother and within a few minutes she was back out to play. This time, wearing a diaper. Probably a pampers or something. I know it sounds completely absurd but it’s true. I never asked so I don’t know how or why, but I did see it sticking out of her pants when we hid again. That’s when she told me she was peeing right then.

I guess I kind of came away from that experience with the realization that diapers were not only practical, for hide and seek anyway, but feeling indescribable about seeing the cute girl I had a crush on wet herself and then later wear a diaper.

All at the tender age of 9, and I think she was 7. None the less, there’s definitely something to that whole “comfort in confined spaces” thing. Just think of the way we design bathrooms in our homes. Even if it is a big bathroom, we still make a tiny enclosure around the toilet and box it in. I even know of people who just can’t go in a big, open bathroom, let alone a big, echoing, public bathroom. My wife for example. Total stage fright in public restrooms, can’t go, at all. She says they’re too open and hallow sounding. Put her in a little bathroom, she’s fine. When she wears diapers though she can relax more, but still prefers enclosed spaces. Couldn’t go at all at the movie theater one time, but as soon as we got in the truck she just about flooded out a Bambino in one wetting!

I try not to ingest anything that may cause runny messes or anything like that, and try to exercise regularly so I can keep “regular”. It’s not easy to do, of course, and I’m not always able to be in a comfortable place when I need to mess, but it’s surprisingly rare that I’m in that awkward situation.

Perhaps we have subconsciously been able to adjust our lives around our messes? Since mine tend to be, lets say “voluminous”, it can be very embarrassing to have a large obvious lump in the seat of my pants – even though I tend to wear baggier clothes, like overalls. But I find that even with my baggy outfits the stretch of the diaper is still clearly visible after I poop in my pants. (well, diaper actually)

Thanks so much for sharing this!!