Kay, Diapers, and What Happened
A lot of people are wondering what happened to Kay so long ago. I am sorry I never responded to a lot of you but I did respond to some people. I try to respond to everyone but as you can imagine I get tons of emails and I just never got around to making a post about it. Kay as you know is incontinent like me and is into the DL thing a little bit but she just didn’t feel like there was any benefit for her to be blogging and she was not to fond of the attention she got. Not to say she didn’t appreciate some of it – but there was some attention she said that made her uncomfortable. That with a combination of that she is not into the AB or DL scene that much – she just decided it wasn’t for her. Which is definitely understandable. I told her to try it out and see what she thought and it just wasn’t for her.
She really is a kind person and very down to earth. She said her and her boyfriend tried to meet a lot of people but most everyone of them either chickened out or just couldn’t relate on a mature level. She shares a lot of the same ideas that I feel on certain things and it is unfortunate. A lot of people if you meet them or talk to them, all they can relate to you on or talk to you about is diapers. Which, yes, diapers are a big part of my life and hers as well but that is not all we are about…she was looking for real friends and people they could get a long with and have fun with doing what typical friends do. But, she said that most everyone just couldn’t get past that whole diaper thing and it just became awkward.
That is where I find it very important for ABDLs. Do not lose your social life over it. Diapers can be a huge part of your life whether your incontinent, AB, DL, ABDL, mommy, daddy, whatever – but don’t let it rule your life. You have to have other aspects of your life that does not revolve around diapers because in the end once the diaper stuff does fade if you meet someone – you would like to have a good true friend and not just a diaper friend. At least that is how I look at things and how I base who we attempt to meet offline. We are very supportive of the ABDL community but we will really only meet people that we have talked to for a while and developed a good friendship online that doesn’t revolve around everything diapers. Just my suggestion for those out there looking to meet other girls or guys for that matter…your life is not diapers – it may be a big part – but you are a person too! Don’t forget that 
Bambino Teddy Tapes Tutorial
Just to let everyone know really quick that Bambino Diapers posted on their blog how to properly apply the tapes for the new Teddy Bambino Diaper: http://www.bambinodiapers.com/news/
Bambino Teddy Diaper Review
I finally got my hands on Bambino Diapers new Teddy Bambino Diaper. I thought I would do a nice review of the adult diaper. It really is an amazing diaper and I absolutely love the new design…its super cute. So, first I will start off with a picture of the new Teddy Bambino Diaper:
This is obviously the package they came in…they arrived in a normal unmarked case and then they are designated in these clean looking white packs. You can see the little teddy bear designs already on the front of the diaper panel. I just love the look of a nice clean package of these. They look so cute. Great for organizing I must say because the package is a perfect size. Anyways, onto the review:
Appearance: The new Teddy Bambino Diaper design is really a beautiful and cute design in my opinion. The bears are not too big and not too small. They really do a nice job of resembling a baby diaper but in adult size. The front panel is also a “matted” type finish which I LOVE because its not just a tape anymore – its built directly into the plastic of the diaper. The diaper all around is all white besides the front panel which is obviously the cute teddy bear designs. Here is a picture of it up close:
So, as you can see the Teddy Bambino front panel is super cute atleast in my opinion. Of course the diaper is all PLASTIC and NO CLOTH.
Absorbency: The absorbency in the new Teddy Bambino Diaper is phenomenal. They actually improved the absorbency they said by adding about 10% more polymer to make these adult diapers even more absorbent then previous versions. I think a lot of people would agree that these are probably the most absorbent adult diaper on the market that you can get. I am one of those people that I agree with that. It is really hard to make this diaper leak…believe me I tried. So, I give an A++++ to absorbency and say Bambino Diapers definitely improved upon the absorbency factor even more. The diaper leaves plenty of room for defecation if you use the diaper to poop in or have bowel incontinence. The seat of the diaper definitely allows for that which is a nice feature that not all adult diapers possess.
Comfort: The Bambino Teddy Diaper has about the same comfortable feeling as all the other Bambino Diapers. The only thing that has really changed is the addition of more polymer for added absorbency and a new front panel along with new and improved stretch tapes (get to those down below). The inner lining of the Teddy Bambino is super soft…not sure what they use to make it so soft inside but if you compare it to other adult diapers – it really is a lot softer. Not sure how they do that buts its crazy soft!
Tapes: Bambino Diapers added all new tapes to the Teddy Bambino…they are stretch tapes which actually BEND with you and move with you so they add a bit more flexibility to the diaper which is nice for night time wearers who toss and turn in the night. It also just adds a bit more maneuverability I noticed when I was wearing it. That little extra stretch definitely adds a bit more comfort and flexibility to the diaper as a whole. Plus, you can re-tape the diaper on as always if you have to take it off or undo it for some reason which is a nice feature as always. I did notice a select few people having problems with 1 tape breaking on them and I have yet to have that happen but I think most people are agreeing that the cause is if you put it on too tight. You don’t want to fully stretch the tape on as you tape up the diaper otherwise when it goes to actually try to “flex” it wont flex it all. So, my advice is to not put it on super tight – this goes for all diapers…most tape problems are due to user error putting them on too tight and then soaking them – try not making it uber tight and it should fix any issues if you actually have any. Here is a picture of the tapes:
Customer Service: As always if ANYTHING goes wrong with the diaper – Bambino Diapers will be pretty quick to help you. You can call them or email them – and any problems you have with the diaper they typically respond to you within 24 hours if not a lot sooner…that has been my experience.
Overall: Overall I think Bambino Diapers took a big step in the right direction with the new Teddy Bambino Diaper. It really adds a whole new product to the adult baby and diaper lover collection of adult diapers. For me, this diaper is a staple in my collection and I will probably order a case of the Teddy Bambinos and a case of the Classico each month – peppering in some Biancos there too. There really isn’t that much I would improve about this diaper…its more absorbent then I could probably handle and its plenty thick feeling and very babyish. Its honestly what I always thought of as the perfect adult baby diaper. I know everyone has their own opinion on what makes the perfect adult baby diaper – but this comes pretty darn close if not it for me. Just thankful a company actually goes out of their way to make products like this for the adult baby and diaper lover community. Here is a photo of the diaper itself:
If you have any questions feel free to ask me and I will try to help.
New Bambino Diaper – “Teddy Bambino” and New Booster Product
I was informed by some people that a press release was made about Bambino Diapers coming out with new products and I wanted to post them here for everyone…too summarize it sounds like two amazing products. An awesome adult diaper that I am guessing has a teddy bear type design and a new booster that also looks great! Here are the press releases:
http://www.prweb.com/releases/teddy-bambino-diaper/adult-baby-diapers/prweb4235894.htm
http://www.prweb.com/releases/bambino-diapers/totaldry-booster-pads/prweb4242154.htm
It looks like all they are waiting for is to get the products up on the site – so keep checking the Bambino Diapers site as I am sure they will pop up here soon!
I am super excited! I am going to be the first to order a case, I know I am weird – I am going to be checking their site like every hour from now on.
Trip to Mall Older Photo
So, I realized I hadn’t posted a photo in awhile so I figured I would post a photo from one of my trips to the mall a long time ago. Obviously, in parking lot, lol!
As you can sort of tell from the picture I had one of Peter’s medium Bambino Diapers on (look at the tapes) because I had run out of the smalls at the time. Mediums aren’t that bad of a fit on me, honestly. Just the smaller Bambinos fit me tighter and don’t come up as high in the front just because I naturally have a smaller waist and proportions.
Well I am off to do some pilates – just started taking classes. So, I hope everyone is having a great week and thanks to everyone who reads and participates on my blog. You make my blog what it is! Lots of appreciation…believe me!
The Need for a Legitimate ABDL Social Network
The need for a legitimate ABDL social network is something I have desired for a long time. There are a few ABDL social networks online but they all have serious flaws that render them basically useless and are just breeding grounds for people to look at photos all day and to bother people. The ABDL community would really benefit I think from a social network that is well run, well-moderated, and has a good abundance of features that emphasizes getting to know others rather than just for looking at browsing photos. As is now, unfortunately, the best social network for ABDLs is DiaperSpace and everybody knows how incompetent that site is and the problems it has…but as it stands, that is the best we got. Which, it is unfortunate.
I know the intricacies that are involved in running a huge social network are large and probably costly but I think if somebody were to do it right then it really could turn out to be not only helpful for the ABDL community in general but in the end it would pay back what is put into it if done properly. I think where sites go wrong is they rush to throw up some social network that runs but it runs poorly and hopes that it attracts a ton of users…and when it does the site slows down, problems arise, people leave and the site dies. That is the typical cycle for a lot of these ABDL social networks. The one exception really being DiaperSpace and that site still dies sometimes and is slow a lot of times too; not to mention the sketchy ways they inflate their users and they are extremely profit-hungry according to a lot of people. They are also very strict in regards to things that should be allowed freely on that site. The site is poorly moderated in general and is just a breeding ground for people to look at photos and stalk. The owners are purely concerned about the monetary aspect of the site.
A good social network would be willing to put forth the right amount of money up front to get the site in the right direction and running smooth and all that…then, when people start coming and finding out the legitimacy of the site -it grows. Then, in the end the site owner can not only have a good working ABDL social network but also probably can earn back what they put in through advertisements or other means – which is perfectly acceptable in my mind assuming the site is well run and its main goal is to enhance a “socialness” within the ABDL community rather than just a photo breeding ground.
Its obviously not that easy but its a good general outline I think of behind the scenes what needs to be done to make a good ABDL social network. Just my thoughts! I would surely support anyone willing to engage in this.
Bridal Diapers Reality
There has been a lot of “Hooplah” over these so called bridal diapers and honestly I am not sure why. I guess to many the idea of a “normal” bride/woman wearing a diaper in a wedding dress is a nice thought. I won’t say it hasn’t been done before but by no means do I think it is commonplace or even considered. I would say probably less than .2% of all brides wear a diaper. Sure, you may here anecdotes about so and so doing it but I assure you these are extremely isolated. Here is my reasoning:
As a woman, on your wedding day you want to feel sexy, beautiful, elegant, and clean. The last thing a woman wants to do is put on a diaper which is normally associated with probably not being sexy or beautiful or elegant and probably not clean to the average person. I think even if a bride was concerned about going to the bathroom that they would rather not put on a diaper and risk something like that.
Personally, I will be wearing a diaper on my wedding day but my wedding dress allows for a sense of discreetness. I will also be wearing a very thin and probably cloth diaper because at least on my wedding day I do not want to crinkle or for it to be that obvious that I wear diapers. Any other day I could care less, but on my wedding day I would rather people that I may not know super well or know me be more focused on “is that a diaper?” then just on me and how I look. I am very traditional and I want to feel pretty and beautiful and not like everyone is gawking at me that doesn’t know me.
I think bridal diapers are probably used only for special circumstances and I mean really special circumstances. Unless the bride is incontinent or quirky then I doubt she will risk something like that on her wedding day just for the simple fact that she wants everything to be perfect and wants to feel beautiful, sexy, elegant, etc. Which, a diaper is not the first thing the average person associates with those things. Just my thoughts!
Sorry For Delay Everybody
Hey everyone – sorry for the delay in posting everyone. Been dealing with a few changes in my life that I will be sure to splurge about on this blog very soon! Just very busy and everyone will understand why I have been so busy when I explain it but can’t get into it right now. I appreciate everyone’s patience and definitely VERY soon expect a lot more and a few EXTRAS added to the blog! I am excited for some upcoming things that I am doing for the blog to make it even BETTER. Just gotta get through this little change part of my life that is keeping me so busy and I will be ramping up my posting and adding all the cool extras that I know everybody will love. I hope everyone had a great 4th of July in the United States and have been having a good week thus far everywhere else!
