Relaxing in Diapers

So, I know there are a couple haters out there that find the need to try to bring others down and well to that I will say this…I am just going to make some coffee, open up my curtains, let the sunlight in and just relax in my diapers because all the fabrications you all make up brings me so much joy

Wasn’t that a creative intro for posting a photo? Haha.  Anyways, I was told that a guestbook would be a cool thing to add to this blog?  What does everyone think?  I would moderate it of course because of spam and people posting inappropriate things…but, how about something like that?

I have been working on the profiles thing to add to this blog but I am getting problems with it breaking the blog (aka: messing with the format) so I am still working on that with my limited knowledge of HTML and CSS.  But, if all goes well look for profiles at some point soon hopefully!  I really want profiles to come to this blog so I am working hard on it – just got to get the formatting to look right.

Sorry, guys just been busy, tired, and a little sick lately so have to forgive my lack of posting…to those who email me – I promise I will respond, I get tons of emails so I try to respond to most of them as soon as I can!  Sorry, if I haven’t responded to yours yet!

Wetting a Diaper Sitting Down

Sitting down and wetting a diaper can be a very difficult thing for people who are not incontinent and just want to wet their diapers because they enjoy it. There are a few tricks I have heard from some people over time that they say help. Now, I am sure it depends on whether you are male or female with some of these on how easy they are.

• Do not put your diaper on too tight so that it is right up against your crotch area or butt area.  You do not want the diaper super tight otherwise it makes it harder to pee sitting down because of pure pressure reasons.  Try fastening the diaper on a bit looser so that it allows more room in the crotch and bottom area.
• You can try lifting off the seat of wherever you are sitting slightly to allow yourself an easier time to pee.
• Slouch down in your seat so your bottom is NOT perpendicular with the seat but rather at a more parallel angle with what you are sitting on.

Other than those tips, it really is something I think that takes “practice” and getting used to.  I have heard over time as you get more comfortable using these tips, that you will be able to sit completely straight up and just wet your diaper sitting down without any tricks or help.  There really is no magic to it honestly.  It is all a comfort level and getting used to type of thing in my opinion and from other people’s perspectives.

If you have “mastered” wetting a diaper sitting down I am sure many others would love to hear how you in particular did it and some tips…feel free to leave them in the comments!  I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend – been a bit on the sick side lately so recovering!

Baby Diapers vs Adult Diapers: A Comparison

Baby diapers and adult diapers may seem very similar to many people but in many aspects, they are very different. The needs for babies and adults are similar but different in many respects and I will go through them. Many of the adult babies and diaper lovers out there want just a bigger version of the baby diapers. While, in my opinion, this can be achieved to some extent – the design characteristics, absorbency, and other factors have to be changed to conform to the adult body and it’s needs.

Absorbency
Baby diapers are made with not only absorbency in mind BUT they aren’t meant to be completely soaked to the brim and sat in for hours upon hours. This is a major difference between many of the adult diapers and baby diapers. Many of the people who wear adult diapers either have to be in a diaper for a longer period of time or choose to stay in a wet or messy diaper for a longer period of time. This is not the case when it comes to baby diapers. Many baby diapers are wet or defecated in once or twice and then changed quite soon after because the risk of chaffing, uncomfortableness, etc comes into play with babies. So, the absorbency of many baby diapers is not designed to hold the maximum amount but rather the average void usually of a baby since most babies do not sit in their diapers for more than an hour or so. While, adult diapers are made with maximum absorbency and is a important factor in buying adult diapers. Adults want good absorbency because they can’t always change their diaper whenever it needs to be changed nor can they risk the chance of leaks of any sort as that would be humiliating to many adults.

Design
The comfort and fit is important both to babies and adults but different factors come into play with each. Most babies bodies are quite similar for the most part while adults body shapes vary. For example, babies thighs can vary but for the most part are fairly similar in size/diameter; but, adults thighs can differ by several inches sometimes in diameter which makes a huge difference in what diaper is going to work for you. Some adult diapers are made with larger leg openings to accommodate larger thighs while some other adult diapers have smaller leg openings that will probably still fit but may be a little tight.

Waistbands are typically an important characteristic in adult diapers because adults like the diaper to hug their waistline and it helps to prevent leaks out of the top of the diaper. This characteristic is not as popular in baby diapers but it does exist. The need for this feature is just not as prevalent for babies as it is for adults.

Tapes
The infamous one large tape on each side of the diaper is famous in many baby diapers and sought after by some adult babies and diaper lovers. Very few companies have attempted to replicate this “two-tape” (one tape on each side) system for adults because the mechanics behind the design is quite complex and not very feasible. In baby diapers, the one tape on each side is sufficient in supporting the adult diaper enough when it is wet or dirty and is able to prevent too much sagging. But, the average void for adults is a lot larger than babies and causes the adult diaper to become a lot heavier and the one tape on each side system is not able to properly support the diaper. That is why you see many adult diapers with either two tapes on each side or three tapes on each side because adult diapers when they are wet or messed in need the extra support in order to accommodate the extreme weight of the urine or fecal matter.

Thickness
The thickness of many adult diapers compared to baby diapers is quite different. Baby diapers are used at a high rate and therefore do not require the same absorbency and thus the thickness of the baby diaper is diminished. While, on the other hand, the adult diapers usually require a lot more absorbency (more SAP and pulp) and thus thickness is a lot higher. Thickness is usually a sought after item in the adult baby and diaper lover community but in the incontinence community, thickness is not always a good thing for discreetness purposes.

Overall, the same factors go into baby diapers and adult diapers but in varying degrees. Babies don’t need or want the same things that adults look for in adult diapers. While the baby diaper can be somewhat replicated into adult diapers – in my opinion – the only thing that is not feasible to replicate is the one tape on each side system because it just is not feasible to support adult’s needs when it comes to urine and fecal matter. As nice as a one tape on each side system would be, it might be good for looks, but it presents several problems when it comes to adult diapers.

New Jeans and Quick Photo

Happy Saturday everyone – I hope everyone is having a good weekend.  I just bought some new jeans – you fashion gurus out there – see if you can guess what brand of jeans these are.  Oh yeh, here is the photo:

I just wanted to make a quick post and post a photo because I know I haven’t posted a photo in awhile so…here ya go!  Hope you like it.  But, anyone who can guess the brand of jeans I have on will get a special prize! First person to leave a comment with the correct brand of jeans I have on will win!  They are not a super popular brand but they are a bit more expensive brand…good luck!

ABUniverse Issue

I wanted to address on my blog the issue recently that has been brought to attention between ABUniverse and their partnership with a site that is known to harbor disgusting stories, photos, people, etc of children in relation to diapers.  For those who do not know the site – it is called “Deeker’s”.  I will not link to the site nor will I repeat the site’s name more than once because the site is disgusting in my opinion.  Anyways, I want to address two sides to this issue that I have:

First, ABUniverse is a small adult baby diaper company.  These are the facts:

1. The site ABUniverse partnered with, no matter how short, is disgusting and contains inappropriate material that can easily be considered illegal.
2. ABUniverse DID partner with them.
3. ABUniverse issued a retraction AFTER people had a problem with the partnership.

These are the facts.  Nobody will ever know whether ABUniverse knew what they were doing and was trying to leach traffic from the disgusting people who visit that site or whether they were just oblivious to what they were involved in.

Either reason presents a problem to me.  First, if they did try to leach traffic from that site to help buy their products then that is completely wrong, disgusting, etc on so many levels and is a serious issue with me.  Second, if they were just oblivious to it then that tells something about their company and how out of touch they are with their customer base (ABDLs).

Some people will say that I just do not like ABUniverse and that is why I am writing an article on this.  But, that is just not the case.  I don’t hate them nor do I think you should not buy from them – but it does give you some choices to make about where you buy adult diapers from and brings into question YOUR feelings on the topic.  ANY COMPANY that did this whether online or in the real world – I would have a problem with them!  I have extremely strong feelings towards this topic.

Sites dealing with children and underage is WRONG, period!  There is no other justification needed.  It is just wrong.  Disgusting, nasty, disturbing, and makes me depressed thinking about it.  So, MY feelings on this may be stronger than many of yours on this topic because I know the harm and impact these disgusting sites can have on people.  Don’t try to justify these sites with your “ageplay” reasons – don’t give me that – it’s WRONG and you know it.  Don’t try to justify it.  There is a line and sites like that CROSS IT BIG TIME.

I think it is great that ABUniverse puts out products for the ABDL community…that is a good thing and I commend them for that.  But, they continually give reasons over time that brings into question their reputability as a company as well as many other things with them.  First, it was poor customer service (seems to be somewhat solved but still have heard of some issues); Second, they were actively on boards posing as customers trying to get people to buy their products (lying); Third, their price of their products is suspect because of how high it is compared to other adult diapers (inflated profit margin); And Finally, ABUniverse now actively engaged in a partnership with a well known site that has disgusting stories, photos, sightings, people, etc dealing with children and diapers.  Those are the facts – people have named some other things to me about them but I will not speculate on those because they are not facts.

Overall, do I think you should stop buying from ABUniverse? No, probably not.  But, should it question where you buy adult diapers from and who you want to support based on your morals and logic? YES, definitely.

My Personality and I Heart Diapers

Many people have “questioned” why I blog and say the things that I say. Some people find it hard to believe that a 20 something year old girl that actually has a life chooses to come onto a blog and tell complete strangers and a male dominated group about her life and happenings. I would say a lot of it comes out of jealousy to be quite honest. I am not trying to “toot my own horn” but the reality is that many of those that say things like this look at my situation and since they do not have it, they automatically assume its not real or fake. It is unfortunate but seems to be a large part of some people’s psyche. There are a lot of things that I do not have or that other people have that they love about their life that seems out of reach to me but I do not sit there and say that it is untrue. I am sure there are some other reasons for people to question why a girl that wears diapers comes onto a blog and reveals so much about her life. Probably some of them include the fact that this is the internet and some people just don’t trust others (understandable), some people think they “know” girls (lol), and some people probably just think they are “good” at picking out bullshit. Anytime anyone does these to me, its extremely laughable to me. Don’t get me wrong – it may seem like I reveal a lot about myself but in reality I do leave out revealing factors about me, certain happenings, etc. that would completely expose me, what I do, where I work, etc etc…so I guess some things don’t seem to add up to people sometimes because quite frankly they don’t LOL. I include snippets of my life, not my WHOLE life. I change names of others a lot of times, exclude names of local places, etc because I can’t reveal everything unfortunately.

Anyways, the main reason I do what I do on this blog is because it is a way for me to express a lot of my inner-feelings about diaper related things.  I am a very emotional person and diapers are an emotional, spiritual, mental, and physical part of my life.  I can’t exactly release all my thoughts and emotions about diapers and adult baby type stuff in the real world so I blog.  Some people wonder what I could possibly get from every once and a while spilling the beans about a messy diaper happening or something like that…well here is the reason so many of you have been waiting for: I find the notion and idea of certain things like messing in my diaper, wetting my diaper, diaper changes, diapers in public, etc to be quite exciting even after so many years…especially after embracing the whole diaper lover thing and becoming involved.  Yeh, yeh – it happens everyday and I should be immune to it all – but that is just not the case for me.  No matter how you spin it, wearing diapers is “different” then the norm in society unfortunately…so its hard to completely forget about diapers in every aspect of my life even though it is so second nature.  So, sometimes it builds up and I just want to talk about it and express some of the adrenaline rushing events that happen in my life.  Plain and simple.  Some things that happen to me are second nature but to some of you probably would not be and would be exciting.

My personality is very forward.  I have always been that way.  I have to find a way to express myself on certain things and really there is not too many ways to express yourself in diaper related things in my case unless its to Peter basically so this is my main outlet.  Other reasons are still big and they include helping others, showing people that not everyone in the ABDL community is crazy, interacting with people, etc.  There are good people in the world and I try to be one of them.  I am not perfect as many close to me will tell you but just realize that while some of the things I say or do may seem far-fetched to you, that does not mean they aren’t true or something like that.  I try to address things that are beneficial to others a lot of times and help them see the “light” per se.  I will NEVER just flat out lie on this blog on purpose because that is just not me…so I choose to leave some things out sometimes which if YOU (the reader) had that information some things might “add” up on some things a bit better.  But, I can’t always give you every tid bit of my life.

Thoughts on Profiles at I Heart Diapers

So, I am proposing an idea to maybe add a little more personality to I Heart Diapers and want to know what everyone thinks.  I am thinking about adding a feature to this blog that will basically give you your own profile essentially and you would be able to interact a little more with the other visitors and members of the site.  There are multiple directions I can take it in and add a lot of more interactive features with it.  First and foremost though, this site will always be a blog and I want to keep it that way and not turn it into some huge social network.  But, I thought if people had their own profiles and were able to maybe interact with others in and around the site in certain ways in may benefit some people in the ABDL world as well as those that are incontinent?  Thoughts? Suggestions?

Also, as promised, I updated my review of the Unique Wellness Brief since I had a bad batch…you can check out the updated Unique Wellness Brief Review.

Also, just as a reminder, if you are still looking for a Invite for that points earning site since it is invite only…just let me know!

Please share your thoughts with me on this profile thing and all that jazz and let me know what you all think of it!

Wednesday Randomness

I have been a bit under the weather lately, I guess from the weather change around here.  I don’t really know.  Things have been kind of slow and I find myself sort of just meandering around the internet randomly (I know, thrilling, right?)  Anyways, so I found this neat site that has nothing to do with diapers but its a fun way to waste some time online while also earning things.  One of my girlfriends from college showed it to me and invited me, since it is invite only and I have been doing it nonstop.  You basically get points for logging in everyday, answering questions, watching music videos, and umm little episodes and stuff also.  You can take those points and cash them in for like ipods, imacs, t-shirts, money, video game systems, etc.  I have already earned an IPod Shuffle! So, its on its way.  Anyways, its invite only so if you would like an Invite to it, just leave me your email address either in the comments of this post or send me an email via my contact page and I will send you an invite to it.  I am sure some of you may be part of the website as its gaining popularity!  But, I am always willing to give out invites to those who want to join so just leave your email on the comments or send me an email on my contact me page.

NOTE: Just include your email address in the email address line – not in the actual comment itself!

Better posts coming soon including an updated review of the Unique Wellness Brief!

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