My Lack of Posting
I know, I know – another apologizing post. My life is extremely hectic right now – we are in the midst of moving into a house from our current apartment so things are all over the place. We just now got internet back – been without it for the last week during the transfer. But, I just wanted to make a quick post to let everyone know I am still alive and well 
Just going through a pivotal moment in our lives right now with a big move and a few job related things too so once we get the new house setup and everything calms down – I will be able to hook up my external hard drive which I took a bunch of new diaper pictures with and I will be sure to slowly post them since I know I haven’t posted any photos in a while. Believe it or not – it is hard to find interesting things to post about after I have been posting for basically 3+ years.
Maybe I need a “suggestion” form that people fill out for topics that I just post on sometimes. That way – whatever the topic you all submit – I will post on the topic. I would of course appreciate the topics being someone thoughtful and not “how to change messy diaper” – something with a bit more thought or uniqueness or legitimate questions would be much appreciated. But, I will hopefully get that setup here in the next few days as that would make my life a lot easier than trying to come up with topics all the time and not repeat. I know I bore some people out there but you have to understand that I am just like most of you in the sense that I am not really that unique and my life is pretty monotonous at times as with most people.
A Lazy Friday
Here I am sitting in my living room on the couch on my day off typing away on my computer doing absolutely nothing. I have the day off from work so my goal today is to do as little as possible. I will probably only move from this couch the whole day until Peter gets home to change my diaper or grab food/drink. Sound boring? It sounds like heaven to me right now. I have been absolutely wiped out lately so sitting on the couch and doing nothing is amazing to me right now. Looking through the Netflix shows and movies right now to see what I would like to start watching on my all day movie/show marathon.
On a random note – Amazon is now allowing you to trade in your electronics for Amazon gift cards…I think that is a pretty good deal. I have a lot of old electronics laying around and I love Amazon so I am probably definitely going to do that. Figured there had to be other people out there that always liked finding a good deal like me and trading in junk I don’t really use anymore for free money is always a good deal in my mind.
Yum, this bowl of Kashi with blueberries is so good. Kashi + blueberries = love. So, good. Kashi has a lot of fiber in it which is really important to me. There are so many benefits to fiber that many people I think look over but if you really do your research you will realize just how many benefits fiber really does have for your body. Anyways, maybe I will do an informative post on fiber later. I know there isn’t much interesting stuff in this post – but so goes life…I am not that interesting of a person in my mind. It is summer time and I will have a bit more free time and I am planning to do something a bit different with the blog to maybe spice it up some but I am not that technically inclined so be patient with me as I work on it.
Intelligence Within the Adult Baby Community
The adult baby community in my opinion is comprised of some extremely intelligent people. I have talked with people that are physicians, lawyers, and yes even government officials. As a whole I think our community is extremely bright which is a positive and a negative thing in my eyes. Because a lot of times with intelligence comes caution and with caution comes speculation and with speculation comes well…insanity and paranoia. That is not to say that our community isn’t also filled with people that probably don’t know how to count to 10…no offense to those people…but it is the sad truth. But, I think it speaks volumes to our community that some of those most intelligent people in the world engage in this activity. This isn’t some rogue “fetish” in my opinion and as long as we are on my opinion – I would say that adult baby and diaper lovers are one of the BIGGEST communities in the world whether those people that share that interest want to admit it or not. There are those that engage in the community which number in the hundreds of thousands around the world if not reaching into the millions with those that are not as open and communicative about it. This community is larger than most people think. I am amazed sometimes after scrolling through some of the big boards the intelligence that does radiate through in the adult diaper community – you can hear it in the way people type and articulate there statements. Usually, which is followed up with a lot of times one of the most idiotic of statements to balance it out. But, to those out there that are educated and recognize the civil and intelligent people within the community – you do not go unnoticed. I surely appreciate much of the diaper community that tries to act civilized in their conversations.
I just cannot tell you how proud I am to be part of the adult diaper community. Yes, there are those that really do bring down this community sometimes but overall I am proud to be part of this community. In my opinion, we are unique and there is no other community out there like the adult babies and diaper lover community. You ever get that feeling when you are home alone in maybe just a thick diaper and t-shirt and you walk by the mirror and notice that perfect little “pouch” in the butt of your diaper…you know what I am talking about. It gives you that real babyish feeling and comforting feeling. At least for me it does. And, it just causes a rush of emotions. It just got me thinking just of how proud I am to be part of this community and how great it is. Cheesy…I know but its the truth.
There are so many times before I go out with friends that I just get excited about what I am going to wear that night and which diaper I am going to choose…this doesn’t happen all the time but it does happen when I get in those moods. I cherish those moments. I guess this is one of those “intelligent” moments I am having where I am trying to articulate somehow what I’m feeling and its not working to well…lol. Hopefully, some of you catch on to what I am meaning and can make sense of it in your head. I guess I have sort of strayed from the original title of this article. But, I was reading over some of the boards lately – just browsing – and you read some idiotic statements and then you read some really calm, intelligent, and concise postings and you wonder who is on the other side of that post because its insightful and intelligent. I am one who can appreciate those people that manage to maintain such civility in the conversations in the adult baby community because I feel it adds credibility – maybe not so much to outsiders – but to those who can appreciate others acting mature and truly trying to engage in a conversation and make friends and be nice. There are so many people out there that I feel would be better off if they just tried to act more mature, control their hormones, and act semi-intelligent when they talk and they may just meet some truly nice people and actually make friends. I am not trying to be mean at all…I just get emails all the time asking what someone can do to meet other people and I am not passing judgment on those in particular people that email me but I know for a fact that some of them have to be these same people posting on these adult baby forums in rude, unintelligible, and narcissistic ways and I just can’t help but think that if they just lightened up a little and acted a tiny bit more mature they may have a chance of making a real connection with someone if that is what they want (maybe that isn’t what they want?).
But, that isn’t to say the intelligent people don’t come without their flaws too. With intelligence comes that paranoia because they actually CARE who is on the other side of that computer rather than the words on the screen. So, they are always thinking about who they are truly talking to. They start questioning every statement, analyzing it, and trying to make offhand judgments based on the words on a screen. You may think to yourself…well aren’t I judging those adult baby members that talk unintelligible? No, I don’t judge so much on the words but more than attitudes in those words. There are some people that don’t exactly type or write very well but you can tell what they really mean and their attitude through what they type…you can see the benevolence in their writings. But, anyways the intelligent people question everything…as did I along time ago…now I just don’t care. If you don’t want to prove to me who you are – fine I don’t care. If you want to lie about who you are to me – that is your free will and I can play along with that if I have time at the moment because it can be entertaining sometimes. I am not going to get all worked up if someone wants to lie to me about themselves. I have everything I want in life on the other side of this screen – a loving husband, a home, great parents, great friends, diapers, and more – I don’t feel the need to judge others and waste my time tracking down who is being honest and who isn’t. Its unfortunate that goes on in this community but I suppose its a necessity because there are so many people that aren’t truthful about who they are.
Anyways, I know this post is long but its just me trying to articulate things that I think make up a big part of our community and that which makes us so unique. I will say this – neither group is wrong in my opinion for how they act – they balance the community. All that I can suggest to the adult baby and diaper lover community that may help us all is to the rude, unintelligible and mean people…maybe try to be a “tiny” bit more mature in your conversations and think about what you say before you blurt it out. And to those intelligent people out there…maybe just try to tone down the paranoia a bit and enjoy the adult baby and diaper lover community more instead of looking at everyone with a detective eye like someone is out to get you. Overall, everyone just get along
I am done rambling for the night and I am sure everyone is probably either like wow that was really well thought out or some of you may be like “wtf” or what in the world just happened…lol all views are understandable. Just in one of those creative typing moods I guess…now that I think about it – it sort of is that time of the month for me – maybe its the hormones making me a bit extra creative?
How I Wear My Bambino Diapers
So, I wanted to show everyone how I usually do my Bambino Diapers when I am going out for a long night (i.e. Friday or Saturday night with friends). So, last night before I went out with Peter and some of our friends I took a photo of how I usually do my diaper.
Notice how you can see where I place the booster for ME. I place it more in the seat of the diaper but for males, at least Peter, he places his booster usually towards the front of the diaper more in order to absorb the urine better. But, I usually wear a nice booster in the seat of a Bambino Diaper or Molicare or whatever diaper I choose to wear that night and that usually provides me the protection I need for a long time.
In case you were wondering, yes these are the older Bambino Diapers – I have some still laying around – note the blue on the waistband.
Bambino Diaper Variety Case
I have yet to make a post on the new Bambino Diaper’s Variety Case. Maybe some of you have heard of it and maybe you haven’t. A lot of people requested on many forums over the years some sort of variety case so they could either try out the different looks, feels, etc of each of their adult diapers. It seems Bambino Diapers has done just that. Take a look at the photo below of what it looks like:
I think this is a really good move on Bambino’s part because there are a lot of times even myself wants to have one of each type of the diaper for whenever my mood is for a Classico, Teddy, or Bianco. There has to be others out there that get in moods where they just feel like wearing an all white diaper or moods where they really like the Classico or Teddy look. I know I do. So, this is definitely a plus to even the users of Bambino Diapers and not just newbies to their products. I haven’t yet ordered myself a case but I will be ordering them in the coming weeks when I make my usual case purchase. It will definitely be nice to have the variety all in one case at ONE price. Very convenient for me at least.
Anyways, if you have ordered the Variety case from Bambino Diapers or have any additional input on it – I would definitely love to hear it and I am sure some others would as well. I will be sure when I do eventually order the Variety Case to post photos and my thoughts on it…even though there really isn’t much difference besides the pure convenience of it and that you get a variety instead of just one kind! Anyways, hopefully everyone is having a good week – almost to the weekend!
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Ronaldo Wearing Adult Diapers in Soccer
A news report just came out reportedly saying that Ronaldo back in 1999 had to wear adult diapers due to the fact he was taking a medication for weight loss. Link to Article
Honestly, not sure what to make of this assertion. You would have thought SOMEBODY would have noticed a diaper or something odd during one of the games? Right? Of all the cameras going off and all the crazy movements in soccer – there was not a simple glimpse of anything remotely resembling an adult diaper? The only thing I could possibly think of as a possibility is he had to wear thin pullup style adult diapers and he wore them under the shorts with mesh in them and then made sure is shirt was tucked in at all times. That would be my guess if there was any truth to it. There is NO WAY he was wearing a diaper along the lines of Depends, Attends, or any other brief style adult diaper for that matter – the bulge or sound would just be too noticeable in some format for that many people to miss.
Just my thoughts on the whole Ronaldo diaper situation. What do you all think? Am I missing something, is there proof?
Wet Diapers and Clumping
So, I figured I would make a post about wet diapers and clumping that happens in some poorly made diapers. In many store brand and poorly made diapers you get something called clumping where the urine causes the material to clump and you lose that nice soft protective cushion in the diaper and it turns into this rougher clumpy mess in the diaper. I have posted a picture of an Attends Diaper below that I wore a while ago after I had wet it…you can see the clumping in the bottom of the diaper.
I hate clumping which is precisely why the majority of the time I prefer to wear premium adult diapers instead of cheaper made diapers. You probably have noticed clumping before if you wear a lot of store-brand adult diapers. Clumping does eventually happen in premium adult diapers as well but it takes a significantly longer period of time and usually by that time you have probably wet the diaper about 3 times before you even notice any sort of clumping at all.
I just always hated the feeling of the clumps and it also significantly reduced the absorbency as well. Plus, maybe it is just me but when you can actually see the clumping from the front and bottom of the diaper from the outside it looks unattractive to me and sort of ruins that “look” of a nice clean white thick adult diaper. Maybe its just me though. Anyways, just me rambling.
A Night Out
Just making a quick post while I am getting ready to go out for a “night on the town”. Haha not really on the town but going to go out with some friends and have a good time. I haven’t been able to do much lately because I have been so busy but as I stand here putting on makeup and picking out what to wear and what not it really is just exciting knowing your about to go out for a nice relaxing nice with some girlfriends. I don’t get to do it that often so I try to bask in the enjoyment of it all. Should be fun. We are probably going to end up seeing a movie tonight as well – not sure which one to see yet though. We are learning towards that new movie Tangled – but we will have to see what time it is playing and what we feel like when we get around to that.
Just a quick tip for those who wear diapers out in public or any where I guess for that matter. If you want to wear a thicker diaper like a Bambino, Molicare, Secure, etc. and not deal with it being so tight on you and puffy while wearing it…first, when putting the diaper on make sure after taping it up to stand up and readjust it if you put the diaper on laying down so that it is better fitting. Roll the top of the diaper down so that it does not bulge so much in the front and then push on the front of the diaper and the back to try and “loosen” the diaper up to be a bit less “bulgy” and also to release some of the air trapped in it. Then, place a bit of vaseline on the areas in the crotch to help the diaper slide and not chaff or cause any uncomfortable marks in that area. That is sort of my process for diapering a lot of times…it helps *Some*. It can only help to a certain extent but when going out on a night like tonight where I REALLY don’t want to have leakage issues and uncomfortable issues I wear a thicker diaper (Bambino) and follow those steps almost religiously and it helps me at least. Not sure how that all plays out in the “man part” department as I know that can add an extra “obstacle” I am sure to the bulge. Not sure what to tell you there.
Anyways, I’m off and I hope everyone has a great weekend! stay dry!
