I just wanted to quickly wish everyone a Merry Christmas and if your not celebrating Christmas than happy holidays and if your none of that then, well just have a great day! I hope everyone is excited about Christmas as I am. But, I will be away at the family’s place so I will be back a day or so after Christmas with something NEW I hope everyone has a great day and everyone…SMILE
For many of us, including myself, diapers are a way of life. We are incontinent and are forced to either deal with catheters which are a pain and I will never ever use those or wear diapers. While I didn’t discover diapers via experimentation, feeling, etc. I did discover diapers all over again basically and what they really ‘mean’ in the world of ABDLs. They give the diaper such a positive persona instead of a negative object that is reserved for babies and old people. I never thought of the happiness, joy, and pleasure diapers could have brought to me before I truly discovered the ABDL world – I never thought of the feelings I would be feeling. In probably a horrible attempt to describe what I refer to as an “indescribable feeling” towards diapers I will try to express what I find thrilling and joyful in wearing diapers.
I am sure a lot of people are familiar with that rush you get when you think or know somebody has spotted your diaper. Even though that person is probably not going to say anything or think much of it – that “rush” is an amazing feeling just even thinking someone noticed. That feeling is hard to describe…because though in a way you want others to notice your diaper, in a sense, you do not for fear of any sort of negative response, emberrassment, shame, etc. So, the feeling of someone possibly noticing your diaper is indescribable because its addictive in that, personally, I love the idea of someone noticing that I am wearing a diaper under a skirt or pair of shorts. Even though it is not by choice that I wear, it gives me an amazing rush for some reason that I cannot describe. But, there is that hesitation sometimes that I only want them to get a quick peek just so they see it but they are unsure what they saw – which basically leaves them “clueless” and non-judgmental because they are unsure. YES, I know very confusing – I told you I would do my best to describe it. All I know though is the feeling is nothing like being extremely happy or extremely emberrassed – it is neither of those. It is what I would say a “happy medium on steroids” (awesome describption I know!) – because its like I have this happy medium between feeling the comfort of wearing a diaper and someone else noticing but not too much but then take that happy medium and give it steroids. Haha, I truly must laugh at myself trying to describe this.
For anyone who possibly caught on or understood anything of what I was saying, I truly must applaud you because that is probably the worst explanation I could probably give. I tried my best to describe the feeling and hopefully I am not alone in this “indescribable feeling”. What can I say, diapers have shaped my life and opened up many opportunities and all I want to do is take every advantage I can of it.
I personally know that I use to love how a pampers or huggies diaper use to smell. They still give off a light scent but not like they use to. I personally would love a product to come out in the ABDL community that has a baby scent to it. I think this product would do extremely well in the ABDL community – atleast I know I would buy it. As is with all my diapers sitting in my closet or in a drawer – I would love to be able to open my closet or open my drawer to a light wiff of a nice baby scent to it. Nothing to strong of course but just a little something – ya know?
Yes, I am aware you can just throw some baby powder around and sort of get the same effect but that is sort of messy and being the neat freak that I am I wouldn’t like baby powder thrown all around my house or room. Yeh, I am a neat freak…you really ought to see my closet. All the diapers are perfectly stacked up and in nice little perfect heights to look super organized. They are also organized by the type of diaper. But, that is me I guess – Ms. Neat Freak.
I am one of those people that is not a pure AB, but I do like to engage in a tiny but AB activities. I am probably 20% AB, and 80% DL when it comes to classifying that. But, that is why I think the whole diaper scent thing would be great and bringing that back would I think really be a great idea! Just my thoughts though – maybe you all think the same?
Hi everyone…in addition to hearing my ramblings you will also get to now hear some of a new girl and one my friends. Her name is Kay. She will do a formal introduction of herself in an upcoming post. But, I figured I would give everyone a sneak peak of her. Here is a photo of her, and she asked that I not show her face…she is prettier than me though But, here is a photo of her:
I wish I had her body sometimes…honestly, I look remarkably similar to her which is kind of strange but she is prettier believe me. Anyways, her name is Kay and please be nice to her. She wears diapers 24/7 as well and is extremely nice. She has a good sense of humor and I am really happy to have her join the blog. Hope everyone has a great weekend!
Well sorry everyone for not posting in awhile, I have just been dealing with some family things as well as enjoying the holidays. And I hope everyone else here had a great Thanksgiving if you live in the US.
Anyways, I thought I would post on something that I have noticed that I would almost label as a phenomenon and I am curious whether it happens to many others besides myself, Peter, and a few of our ABDL friends. I have noticed that when it comes to messing in diapers, even though I am incontinent, I seem to actually only mess when I am somewhere that I am comfortable or familiar with. Examples of places are my house, enclosed spaces, etc. But, when I go somewhere like a movie theatre, restaurant, store, or something along those lines I find that I actually don’t mess as much. Whether this is pure coincidence and timing or a real life phenomenon that you tend to poop when you are more comfortable is beyond my knowing. I know its easier on Peter when he doesn’t have to change one of my poopy diapers when we are out and about (not that he minds), but I must say its easier to change poopy diapers on a bed or floor rather than a restroom or car.
I am wondering if anyone else has noticed this at all. Though, I only probably have a small percentage of control of defecation, it is strange that I tend to mess the majority of the time at our house, the car, and for some reason enclosed spaces. Possibly, it may have to do if when you remember when you were a little kid and you were playing hide-and-go-seek and you were hiding, I always remembered getting nervous and peeing in my diaper while hiding. I don’t know if its the same concept possibly or just pure coincidence. All I know is I had wet diapers everytime I played hide-and-go-seek.
So, I am referring to this as a comfort phenomenon just because my theory is somehow being in a comfortable area possibly does something “chemically” inside your body possibly to stimulate digestive movements or triggers other functions that relax the bowels even more. Because, when I am in the comfortable place I don’t even know I pooped in my diaper most of the time because I most likely lose any small percentage of control I do have. But, when I have messed in my diaper in a somewhat uncomfortable or unfamiliar place I can sort of feel it come on but I can’t control it or do anything about it. Its honestly hard to describe this phenomenon and incontinence unless you have it but I did my best to describe it and how it feels. Just curious if anyone else has noticed anything similar in this respect?
I wanted to link to an article that I thought represented the thought of adult diapers to many others around the world and the notion of how they are not such a “taboo” thing. Here is the link: Dongfang Billy Wears Adult Diapers . It is just a article about a famous artist that was diagnosed with leukemia and as a PRECAUTION was instructed by doctors to wear adult diapers. Honestly, how many doctors around here or much less people would be willing to wear an adult diaper out of precaution. Most people in the US won’t consider wearing an adult diaper unless they are practically leaking feces out of themselves or wetting uncontrollably everyday.
It goes to show that even someone who is in the public eye a lot is not afraid to let others know that he is wearing diapers. Yes, it is for medical reasons but the notion of how ‘free’ and ‘open’ he is about it goes to show the mindset of people in places like Asia. I know I am making a huge generalization here but when do you see articles like this in the USA news unless its riddled with negativity or involving some sort of crime.
He also is continuing to teach a fitness class even though he has to wear a diaper for it. And his reason…it will make him exercise basically. There is not even a mention of emberassment there. Most people if they have to wear a diaper will hide that diaper like they are hiding gold. The only way this wearing of diapers is going to stop being an extreme taboo is if the people who must wear diapers and who enjoy wearing diapers act like it is not a big deal – as well as not blatantly doing stupid acts such as robbing a store wearing a diaper (gives us all a bad name). Just thought the article was quite interesting and thought I would share incase you hadn’t heard.
Link Again to the Article: Dongfang Billy Wears Adult Diapers
These wipes are a lot bigger than the typical baby wipe. They are lightly scented and they are Pampers’ biggest and thickest wipe. 60 wipes come in a container and contains no alcohol in them which is always important. And as it states on the container it is “THICK and cleans big messes” – Thats right I’m not kidding – it says in the bottom left corner that it cleans big messes. So, this is perfect if you want a baby wipe with the nice baby scent to it that can clean up anything from wiping clean after a wet diaper to cleaning big messes after a messy diaper.
I personally don’t use any other wipe unless I have to. Once you use these wipes you really don’t want to go back to any other wipe because of how soft, nicely scented, large, and thick these wipes are. For reference purposes, when I have a messy diaper it typically takes Peter about 5-8 wipes to clean me up which is way better than if we used the smaller wipes that are basically made for smaller babies. They even make a travel pack if you want to stick it in your purse, car, or whatever and not have to carry the full container. They are the best wipe I have come across for the price and they have that nice baby scent to it so it adds to the adult baby experience. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
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Ever since I have worn diapers even though I do not care much what others think, I have always dreamt of ways to bring the adult diaper phenomenon into mainstream society. I truly think it can be done. I would love to be able to normalize in society to a greater extent the wearing of adult diapers. I think this can be done. Signs of it are already present in societies such as Japan wear adult diapers are way more normal for such practical reasons as long train rides. So, why not in other places?
Though most people will not say anything if they ‘catch’ you wearing a diaper as if they have any conscious or understanding they would most likely assume its for personal health reasons. But, I truly believe that the adult diaper wearing notion can be brought into the limelight for more practical reasons and deserve more understandings.
This not only requires a mindset change from people outside the community but also a ABDL community effort to represent adult diapers and the wearing of adult diapers in a more light hearted and practical manner. It will require a grassroots campaign from everyone from diaper product makers such as Bambino Diapers to the community of ABDL’s. I am determined to bring the ABDL community into a better light with mainstream society and I plan to make great efforts to do this. I will be keeping everyone updated on things I will be doing and have done on my blog so stay tuned because this is going to happen – I am determined.