Comments on: To The ABDL Community

By: Clare

Clare — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 10:23:07 +0000

I love your blog, and I have to wear nappies, consequent to a fall. I too have traces of DL and am quite AB. If you have to wear nappies/diapers, because of incontinence issues, why wouldn’t you enjoy your nappies, they allow you the freedom to operate as an independent adult., to live an active life. As for the critical folk, ignore them. This is a tasteful, interesting and basically just nice site. I personally believe you are female, but even if you where not, it still would be a great site. Thanks for making it available.

By: jobb

jobb — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 12:52:37 +0000

Bonjour,

Moi, je suis seul, je suis un ABDL français qui habite à Toulouse et qui revendique le droit d’aimer porter des couches
et des culottes plastiques et qui en a assez de se cacher. A la lecture de votre site, je me dis que mon rêve serait de partager cela avec une femme et qu’à 51ans c’est pas facile et pourtant je ne demande pas grand chose si ce n’est le bonheur. Merci de me lire un jour.

By: babyreaper2.0

babyreaper2.0 — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:57:27 +0000

hi, just read some of your blogs and i love it, and not in the prevy way the “doubters” believe. ignore them, to be honest who wants to expose themselves to the the entire world? for me, posting on webistes like this is a chance to be honest about this side of me and not worry about what my friends or family think. it’s a big part of my life but it’s not my entire life. keep up with the good work, simply protecting yourself does not make you a faker.

cheers for the blog, babyreaper 2.0

By: wannagirl

wannagirl — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:47:42 +0000

Well its been a while since i posted my question. To update on our desire, my husband loves this as do I. We began our want to be in diapers by drinking lots of water for the first week, this made us get used to peeing in ours diapers all the time and in different places. we never let ourselfs to hold anything in. When we felt like going then we went, no matter where we were. in the past two months I have managed to wake up wet every morningfor the past two weeks, and wet the diaper during the day with almost no feeling of having gone (I catch myself half way through). I now poop my diaper everyday and love it. I still feel the poop coming out and i have to help it quite abit. My husband has a little more of a problem. He is only waking up wet a few times a week. And he says he is having to really help his bowel movement to get out.
We both love the feeling that a wet and messy diaper gives us. And our relationship has grown in trust and closeness. We have told each other that we will never go back to the overrated underwear. The bambino diapers we use are awesome, and i like the baby print diapers. We both also wear onesies when we go out to work or in town. They help to secure the fact that we are wearing a diaper.
To anyone who wants to become completely dependant on diapers, I can say that it is a long road, but when you get to your destination it is an awesome feeling. And good luck to you. If you have any questions feel free to email me at gunkota04@yahoo.com

By: Andy

Andy — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 06:51:33 +0000

wannagirl,

This is only something I have heard works and have not seen proof, however it does seem plausable. When babies are being potty trained it is simply trying to tell them and get them to want to stay dry. All you need to do is do the opposite teach your body to want to let every go. I think this can be done by wearing 24/7 and as soon as you feel any hint of needing to go to the toilet you do it in your diaper straight away so your bladder and bowls never actually have to hold it in whilst you find a toilet. Eventually your body will get used to going as and when it needs to because you have told it that that is what you want. Unfortunately I don’t think its quick but its better than having an operation. Hats off to you for wanting to be incontinant, in a way I wish I was incontinant but it just wouldn’t suit my lifestyle 24/7. Let us know how you get on. Good luck.

By: Jason

Jason — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 05:04:02 +0000

I don’t consider myself either an AB or a DL. I like wearing diapers, but not in the way you’d think an AB/DL likes them. There’s nothing sexual in my interests in diapers. I’m 36 yrs old and I need to wear diapers, not for medical reasons. At home, I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants, while I’m out and about, I wear disposable diapers. I’m not complaining, though. I’d rather wear diapers than wet my pants or my bed.

By: wannagirl

wannagirl — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 21:46:35 +0000

This may be a little off topic. But me and my husband have always enjoyed diapers for role play. we are now wanting to both become fully incontinent. does anyone have and tips on how to do this quick and easy? please help. all opinons will help.

By: Chastity

Chastity — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 01:43:11 +0000

This will be the first time I have actually posted anything in regards to your blog. I’ve enjoyed reading a lot of your blog over the past year and your latest two blog entries I read after the fact of something happened on a forum I tend to troll for well, misconduct you could say. People pressing their ideas on others, or saying things that aren’t true, indulging into their fantasy beyond the healthy stages as to disregard their life as a whole for something that isn’t truly real. There was a boy who posted on a thread regarding someone wanting to be incontinent, which I don’t think is something to really strive for considering the reasons behind it. Having urge incontinence, I’ve often debated trying to become fully incontinent since I wear diapers all the time anyway. Still, there are those situations where having some level of control are very handy. The boy who “attacked” you said the following:

“sometimes I question whether sites like iheartdiapers.com are actually real blogs written by the person in the picture. She’s totally incontinent, and says diapers are not a sexual turn on for her (she’s not a dl)….and yet claims how awesome it is to have a soiled diaper or wear in public with it noticeable. She has pics of her in onesies and stuff too….but never claims to be an AB? It does seem very suspicious when supposedly incontinent people go around saying how much they love diapers if they aren’t even dls.”

Being someone who has appriciated your blog, I was quick to post the following once I read what he said;

“She actually does say she is a DL and a little bit of an AB. She says that it depends on her mood what kind of purpose they play in her life (outside of her incontinence.) She does have blog posts about them being sexual at times too. She explains that she does enjoy a “messy” diaper at times because it’s very baby’ish (hence her saying she is a bit of an AB) but she only likes it for a little while, 15 – 20 mins. She is more of a, dress how she wants to dress, and doesn’t care what people think, rather than ‘dress with a point of showing her diaper.’”

Just wanted you to know that you aren’t alone, and you have people out there who defend you, me being one of them. I’m open about my wearing diapers as well due to having urge incontinence and developmental arrest. I see no reason to hide who I am from my friends, but I don’t understand why so many people make such a big deal about diapers, to me, it’s just underwear. Being female, I often am barraged by males and find myself fighting for the right to be seen as more than an object that wears diapers. It can be very frustrating.

Sincerely; Chastity

By: Keith

Keith — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:14:13 +0000

You must have really threatened someone’s sense of self-importance and security on the internet to have made them attack as they did! The most important thing in life, especially these days, is preservation of one’s career, income, and privacy. Unfortunately it may be a few more generations before AB’s, and DL’s are accepted as part of the population. So, ‘real-life’ (I dislike that term, because being a DL is part of my life) anonymity is important. Most employers would automatically plug in a weird sexual connection to an employee who openly talks about their diaper wearing, so… I must say that your blog has given me plenty of encouraging info, and I hope you calm down and leave the bigmouths (bullies?) in the dust. Hmm, that was almost a fatherly line.

By: wildcat

wildcat — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:17:04 +0000

Like it’s been said, don’t worry about what people say and just keep posting what you feel. You probably help more people than you know. Most of the time it’s only the trouble makers that even speak up. I too find too many immature people on ab/dl sites so I am happy when I find mature people out on the net who share DL interests, it helps me feel more normal and not like a freak.

Keep it up!