Your Beautiful – Diapered or Not
There has been a lot of negativity lately in the world and I see it every day with people lacking confidence and feeling down on themselves. I have talked with several people in the adult baby and diaper lover world and over time have noticed a trend of people being very down on themselves and judging themselves for having/wanting to wear diapers. I just wanted to make this post a positive one and maybe one that will help some people.
Diapers don’t and should not define you. They are merely a part of your life – one single part. Once you realize that then you can start helping yourself. There are so many things that define you and diapers are merely one part. Everyone is unique in their own way and you should not let one or two things define your self-worth. People are going to judge you every day of your life unfortunately and once you learn to not care so much what others think too much you can also start to help yourself. You are BEAUTIFUL inside and out. There are a lot of things out there 100 times worse what you could be doing such as drugs, drinking, etc. Diapers can be a positive aspect of your life if you let it and don’t feel guilty for it being part of your life. Where you can get yourself into trouble I have found is when you start letting it affect your social life and encompassing your thoughts.
Answer this question to yourself…do you find yourself wanting to stay in on a Friday or Saturday night so you can just wear diapers and mess around in them instead of going out with friends or something social? If your answer to this is “yes” then you may need to reevaluate how you are handling the diaper aspect of your life. You do not want to let something like this consume your life and keep you from being social and keep you from your relationships. All these things have an effect on your sense of well being and confidence.
Life is just too short to beat yourself up over your looks or little nuances that you think are so different then everybody else. Everybody has quirky things about them, not weird – but quirky. Because what I define as weird could be totally different then what somebody else does. But, quirky is a universal term where whatever it is could be “different” but not weird. Different is a subjective term also but most people can define “different” from “weird” in their own mind. The fact is, everybody has their quirks and how you choose to view your quirks whether it is diapers or anything else can have an impact on your self-worth and confidence. So, starting today – take a look at yourself and find the positives in your life and start looking at your quirky things as something that defines you as unique rather than different. Put a positive spin on it and be confident in yourself that God made you unique and you have a purpose. You are beautiful inside and out…so be confident in yourself!
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Hey Adrian I have a question
Adrian, my baby cousins are visiting and For a weird Reason their diapers fit me perfectly. ( ages 1 and 2) so for every time I see them I borrow, wink wink 4 Or 5 and so far I have ten of the same kind. All the ones I have are a tottal of 14 what number should I get ( number of diapers) before I actually start using them? I will try to get in 3 to 4 wettings before I change many less depending on absorbency and stuff like that. Please answer ASAP THANKS if u can. The number I was thinking of was between 20 and 30 mabay 40 but idk please help!!!!!!!
Nicely said!!
when ever I listen to Kelly Clarkson Stronger( what doesn’t kill you) and think about this artical. I smile and think this is how God made me and this is how I am. I’m just the same person just with different intrests. Again beitifuley said( srry about spelling)
Adrian
Thank you s much for this site and your honest posts.
I feel like I was guided here by fate (god ?) I dont know but well I was with a girl I loved dearly for 6 years but she cheated on me not once but twice. we split up 3 weeks ago and after finding out she cheated on me for the second time I asked her to leave (one of the hardest things I have had to do). so yeah we split up and she was always cool with me wearing diapers and appeared to have no problem with them, the thing is after this happened I find myself questioning whether her apparently being cool with me wearing was actually true and maybe in some way it was what made her leave.
I just dont know what to think right now,
Sorry for some reason it posted without me meaning to >.<
Anyway to carry on …..
yeah I feel like even tho diapers are a major part of my life and she said she was cool with it all, she still left me for another "man" it makes me question myself and in some ways hate myself for having this diaper desire. I try and stop wearing but I just dont seem to be able to go more than 1 or 2 days at the most before having to get back into a diaper. I now sit here alone and kind of hate myself for having this desire that just doesnt go away. Will I be single for the rest of my life ? Should I try and stop this desire to wear (been thinking of going 24/7) god I just dont know.
This post has really helped me/made me think what do I do now, fight the desire that is truly me and try and live normally and get a normal g/f or use this as an opportunity to say fuck it this is me and im gonna do what I want with my life and if I meet someone then they have to know this is who I am !
sorry to go on and on but tbh just writing this has been quite cathartic for me.
I kind of feel life is too short to live worrying about what others may think of me and after all arent we all just souls, beings of light and energy ? why should I be forced to wear normal underwear when wearing diapers makes me feel good ?
Well thanks again Adrian its people like you that make me want to carry on living.
Try overcorecction that’s what I’m trying. In other words wear them for a month straight and don’t take them off no matter how sick u get for having to where them. Also where them 24/7 during the month. I just started this tonight and my school is going on a class trip to splash lagoon. Yes i am going to be wearing them there under my bathing suit in front of my entire grade.
BTW love the post Adrain I was crying in tears as I finished reading it. I actually wet my diaper because I accidentally lost control at the same time so I had to change myself. Good luck.