My opinion of people who wear diapers and are not incontinent is not negative at all. Just because I am incontinent does not mean I don’t enjoy the same thing about wearing diapers as the rest of the community. While, I came to love diapers probably in a different way than most of you as I grew up wearing them while many other ABDLs stumbled upon them or somehow found a love for wearing diapers. While, I don’t regard my love for diapers as “fetish” because I do not focus on them or see them as a sexual object or in a sexual way. I see it as more of enjoyment, fun, comfort, security, and also a little bit of fashion! But, I recognize many people in the community do not see it like this solely and do see it in a more sexual way or in other ways. I am a very free and open person and I do not judge others. My opinion of people who wear diapers that don’t need them is that I am happy for you and glad you found something that makes you feel good, so long as you are not hurting anyone else. I am a big believer in not letting diapers or any other “fetish” or what not cause a major hindrance on your social life.
I have a strong connection to the ABDL community and I find us very different from other communities. This adult baby and diaper lover community is different kind of community because it doesn’t completely center around sexual connotations and ideas. Many people who wear diapers are just doing it for the comfort, security, sounds, etc. This is a far-cry from many other “fetish” or communities in my opinion because they focus more on the sexual side while the ABDL community does not focus on that as much. Which, in my opinion makes us special and an outlier among all the communities. I am honestly proud to be part of the ABDL community and to meet so many wonderful people. And because I am feeling good – I included a recent photo below!
So, my readers have spoken and it looks to be a consensus on what will make my blog better overall. I have received many suggestions so far but the biggest one seems to be to post more often. I can definitely do that and I will do that. I will post at least once everyday…it might not all be diaper related because something diaper related doesn’t happen to me everyday of course. But, hopefully you all will be interested in a bit more about my life and my daily happenings too. I also received a suggestion about a live chatroom where I would be on to talk and answer questions like 2 times a week. Not a bad suggestion, the only thing I would request is that it does not turn into a chatroom where people get “nasty” to each other about things as I have seen in other chatrooms. My whole goal for this blog is that it remain natural, clean, and organized. So, I will look for a chatroom software that I can install into Wordpress that will possibly allow me to do that. Many of you have also requested more photos…which I thought would be a big one. I will try to post photos more often. The only thing I ask is that you be understanding as I am not always thinking about taking photos everyday or every week for that matter as I am busy between my job and hanging out with friends and what not. But, note taken and I will definitely try to do that a bit more…in fact here is one of my latest:
Another suggestion was to get Peter to post as well. I asked him and he definitely said he would – he just never thought people would like to hear from him. But, he will definitely post now as well. So, look out for his posts. Well, its early in the morning and I better get to bed so I will maybe post again later today. Have a good Monday everyone.
For those who have requested to see the dressing room diaper photo – I reposted it below. If you want to criticize or analyze the photo to somehow disprove what I am saying then fine. Your choice. I just would appreciate people not contacting me and making fun of my figure otherwise photos may not be posted at all if people are going to criticize that much. But, I thank you all that have given me positive feedback and are interested in the content I post more than just the photos.
I know I haven’t been able to post lately but I have been dealing with a few family issues so I have been really busy but everything is back to normal so expect a lot more posts. So, anyways I would like to start off my latest post with a little story of an outing I had with one of my good girlfriends this past weekend. We went to one of the local malls and tried on some clothes. Here is one of the photos she took of me while we were in the dressing room in the official Levi store:
*Here is the photo reposted since I have gotten many requests for it*
See the scarf in the picture…OMG I wanted that scarf so bad but it was like $28 and I couldn’t bring myself to buying it. The dressing room attendent person pretty much left us alone while we were trying clothes which I appreciated because I hate sales attendants that sit there and bother you the whole time. Anyways, as you can see I had on my Bambino diaper which I typically wear out when I am going to be out for a long time which let me tell you we definitely were out for a long time so that diaper came in handy. My girl friend thinks the Bambino diaper with the little blocks are like the cutest thing ever. But, she has known about me wearing diapers for a long time so its not really a big deal to her. But, I ended up buying a pair of white jeans (I know – crazy isn’t it) from there which I might post a photo of those soon as well. But, overall the shopping trip was pretty succesful (succesful = buying quite a few things). I didn’t even have to change my diaper once while we were out which was good…thank God for Bambino Diapers.
I have fell in love with a onesie that I am highly considering buying. It is so super cute. You ever get that feeling with something that you just feel like you gotta have…well this is one of them for me. I love this onesie. It is a candy cane strip onesie that is absolutely adorable. I haven’t ordered it yet because I am still debating on whether I want to spend the money and drop about $50 on it…which is considerably lower than what you would pay at Jumpin Jammerz though. Here, you can check out a picture of it below:
As you can see they are super super cute. Most onesies are either too boyish or too plain but these look perfect. Though I have a little bit of an AB side, sometimes I feel like I just want to wear a not so AB onesie in which this would suffice very nicely. It is not to plain but it is cute with its simple candy cane pattern. Maybe I will wait for it to go on the clearance section of the site. I haven’t ordered anything from this Adult Onesie site yet but I have heard good things about how they fit nicely over even a thick diaper like Bambino Diapers. So, I think I may just have to get it. They are from Pajama City – if anyone has ever ordered from them I would love to hear your reviews of what you think about their onesies before I purchase one myself. I would really appreciate it.
Hi everyone!
As Adrian mentioned a few posts back, my name is Kay and I wear diapers 24/7. I will be posting as a guest on Adrianne’s blog on occasion and want to use this first opportunity to delve into why I wear diapers 24/7 and my experiences and transition into diapers.
I have, and have always had a relatively small bladder and an overactive bladder at that. Leaks and discomfort were a part of my every day life, and I accepted that as normal. That was, until, about a year ago, I was introduced to the option of wearing adult diapers as a solution to my bladder problems. I was a bit nervous at first and wasn’t sure if wearing diapers was for me. But I was also curious and tired of the minor bladder mishaps discomfort that were becoming a part of my every day life. I began wearing diapers at home and on my commute to and from work. Slowly I began to build confidence in diapers and began to wear them at work as well. It was amazing! I no longer had to worry about how much and what I was drinking during the day for fear that I would spend most of my day needing to or going to the bathroom.
I began wearing diapers 24/7 about four months ago with the intent of allowing myself to relax and to have decreasing amounts of control over my bladder. Essentially I am working toward incontinence with the hope that it will make larger wettings less frequent and allow for me to pass liquids through my body without the discomfort of pressure in my bladder. Because I pretty much always had to go to the bathroom before my introduction to diapers, regardless of amount of fluids consumed, the challenge for me is more mental than physical, teaching myself to relax and not hold on to anything – not to be afraid to wet my diaper in any public or private setting. I have made some great progress over the past few months and am having a lot of fun experimenting with diferent diapers, learning what materials, absorbancies and styles I like. I feel healthier and happier than ever and feel that I owe those feelings, not only to diapers, but to the person in my life that introduced me to wearing them. I heart diapers!
I hope that everyone had a great holiday season and a very happy new year.
I am like any other girl – I like clothes a lot…but I must say that I have a knack for designer brand clothes. I am sure many people have heard of the brand Ed Hardy and I must say I love their t-shirts for women. I just wanted to show you all a photo of me rockin’ a diaper with my new Ed Hardy shirt. I think its cute.
You can also see I am sporting a Bambino Diaper in the photo. But, I must say I don’t have too many things that are pink but I personally think pink doesn’t look to bad on me. Even though I have put on a pound or two  I have been so busy lately to get the exercise I usually get but I am making my New Year’s resolution to lose a little bit of weight so that even with a diaper on I can fit into a size 25 pair of jeans which would be a major accomplishment for me. I know everyone’s resolution probably has to do with fitness or losing weight and I am no different…I really need to lay off the candy corn and popcorn…haha – BAD me.
While I must admit that I do not exercise as much as I should I do enjoy showing off my awfully poor tennis skills. Everyone has a good laugh at me. I went to play tennis last weekend with Peter and some of my girlfriends. We played doubles against one another with Peter playing with my best friend and me playing with my other girlfriend, whom I won’t name but we will just call her “Ditsy” (I am sure you can gather why I choose to call her that). But, any how needless to say we got crushed…he sure does love to serve the ball where I can never get to it which admittedly is probably EVERYWHERE. But, it was a good workout I would say. Got my heartrate up – heck yeh!
The photo above is when Peter and I were walking back to our townhouse. Gotta love the Nike shorts though – they actually make my legs look good. I probably actually look like a serious athlete (which I’m not – I wish). I figured people would like a nice workout photo with me in a diaper so I made sure Peter brought his camera this time and sure enough we got some shots!
FYI: The bigger image of the above image is on the Photography Page.
Here is a photo we took going out with some friends to a bar on Monday night. Monday night football – heck yeh! Those pants are from Hollister and as you can tell very low rise that is why so much of the diaper is showing when my shirt is pulled up. But, I love those pants. We don’t go out to bars to often because I am not the biggest drinker…I might have a glass of wine or one beer but I must admit I am not a big alcohol fan and if I do drink – I like fruity drinks
Also, on a side note – some of my good friends from IMABDL have a huge surprise for the IMABDL community coming within the next day or two. I was able to test it out today and it is amazing but its a whole new add-on feature rich social network. It will be included in the membership but it will be basically a whole other site you will get access to as well (like a partner site). Its very clean, neat, and organized. I am very excited for them and the whole IMABDL community. Cheers!
Hey everyone. I got two things that everyone might find really neat! FIRST, I wanted to post a new photo for everyone…this is one of the cutest dresses I have I wear around at night so I figured I post this one:
Also, Peter has decided he is going to continue his blog! I talked him into it. He didn’t think many people were reading it so he just sort of stopped. But, I told him to continue and hopefully people will read BOTH of our blogs. But, he is really funny, trust me. So, if you don’t have the URL its: http://blog.imabdl.com
I will also be giving some more of my photos to IMABDL.com to post up there so you can check those out too. Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend.
My name is Adrian Surley and I am 24 years old. I graduated from the University of Florida and I am a big time Gator's fan. I wear diapers full time because I am incontinent. I have come to accept it and really look at the great things about diapers. More
As you can see they are super super cute. Most onesies are either too boyish or too plain but these look perfect. Though I have a little bit of an AB side, sometimes I feel like I just want to wear a not so AB onesie in which this would suffice very nicely. It is not to plain but it is cute with its simple candy cane pattern. Maybe I will wait for it to go on the clearance section of the site. I haven’t ordered anything from this Adult Onesie site yet but I have heard good things about how they fit nicely over even a thick diaper like Bambino Diapers. So, I think I may just have to get it. They are from Pajama City – if anyone has ever ordered from them I would love to hear your reviews of what you think about their onesies before I purchase one myself. I would really appreciate it.
 I have been so busy lately to get the exercise I usually get but I am making my New Year’s resolution to lose a little bit of weight so that even with a diaper on I can fit into a size 25 pair of jeans which would be a major accomplishment for me. I know everyone’s resolution probably has to do with fitness or losing weight and I am no different…I really need to lay off the candy corn and popcorn…haha – BAD me.
