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Bridal Diapers Reality

Adrian — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 15:24:33 +0000

There has been a lot of “Hooplah” over these so called bridal diapers and honestly I am not sure why. I guess to many the idea of a “normal” bride/woman wearing a diaper in a wedding dress is a nice thought. I won’t say it hasn’t been done before but by no means do I think it is commonplace or even considered. I would say probably less than .2% of all brides wear a diaper. Sure, you may here anecdotes about so and so doing it but I assure you these are extremely isolated. Here is my reasoning:

As a woman, on your wedding day you want to feel sexy, beautiful, elegant, and clean. The last thing a woman wants to do is put on a diaper which is normally associated with probably not being sexy or beautiful or elegant and probably not clean to the average person. I think even if a bride was concerned about going to the bathroom that they would rather not put on a diaper and risk something like that.

Personally, I will be wearing a diaper on my wedding day but my wedding dress allows for a sense of discreetness. I will also be wearing a very thin and probably cloth diaper because at least on my wedding day I do not want to crinkle or for it to be that obvious that I wear diapers. Any other day I could care less, but on my wedding day I would rather people that I may not know super well or know me be more focused on “is that a diaper?” then just on me and how I look. I am very traditional and I want to feel pretty and beautiful and not like everyone is gawking at me that doesn’t know me.

I think bridal diapers are probably used only for special circumstances and I mean really special circumstances. Unless the bride is incontinent or quirky then I doubt she will risk something like that on her wedding day just for the simple fact that she wants everything to be perfect and wants to feel beautiful, sexy, elegant, etc. Which, a diaper is not the first thing the average person associates with those things. Just my thoughts!

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The Premium Adult Diaper Industry

Adrian — Fri, 21 May 2010 13:47:17 +0000

So, I know I haven’t posted in a while – been busy with some family things and personal issues. But, hopefully all that is done and I am good to go. I wanted to write a post on the premium adult diaper industry in general.

The adult diaper industry is huge. I mean huge. The premium adult diaper industry though is big but not big as in variety. There are only several huge adult diaper companies that actually put out a “premium” adult type diaper. When I refer to premium, I am referring to the heavy duty type adult diapers that are meant for big messes

If you really think about just how many truly “premium” adult diapers there are – it really is not that many and you start to see the lack of variety. You can probably name them on one hand: Abena X-Plus, Bambino Diapers, Secure Personal Care, ABUniverse, Molicare, and maybe Unique Wellness Brief and Dry 24/7. Those are the big time premium adult diapers on the market. What is also funny if you look at this list is that only 3 of those are truly American made adult diapers (Bambino and Secure)…which raises a question on why there are so few premium adult diaper manufacturers in the United States? Abena I believe is German, ABUniverse is manufactured outside of the United States, Unique Wellness Briefs are out of I believe Australia originally, etc. I left out Tranquility ATN because I don’t consider it on the same level as these adult diapers. I believe Molicare may be manufactured in the United States but was originally created over seas somewhere…at least I remember someone saying that somewhere…so don’t quote me on that.

I recognize that the premium adult diapers are made for a special population and not everyone needs such a heavy duty adult diaper. But, I think the manufacturers are really missing out on a specialized and focused group. Now, the one thing I can think of that may keep some manufacturers away from producing a premium diaper especially for the ABDL type people is the mass complaint system and small room for error. Consider this, Bambino Diapers does just that – they created a specialized adult diaper for the ABDL community mainly – fortunately, there product is really good and amazing but that does not keep the few that despise them for some reason to make it their mission to badmouth Bambino Diapers. When you have a specialized group and one person chooses to be immature that can really hurt a company that specifically caters to a smaller selection of people. So, it is risky for companies I would imagine to create a premium adult diaper for such specialized communities and/or groups when a few people who decide to be immature just plain don’t like the diaper or prefer another one over that one but want to badmouth about it to others for no reason. The same can be said for Abena – some people hate Abena products because of the tapes but the fact is that Abena makes very good products as well but a minor issue such as sometimes their tapes can be difficult cause people to go off on tangents about how terrible of a diaper it is – which is obvious not true. So, I would imagine that some companies think it is a risky operation to cater to such specialized groups which is why you don’t find so many “premium” type adult diapers.

Fortunately, the ABDL community and others can be thankful that a select few companies have decided to either cater to us or continue to manufacture a good premium product that can be used in the adult baby and diaper lover community. I know my thoughts are a bit sporadic today and you will have to forgive me on that – I sort of just type out what I think sometimes. And, I just think sometimes we may be a little too harsh on certain companies when it may be just because of a bad batch of adult diapers or small little inconsistencies that are normal in the manufacturing process. Little problems like that should not cause us to hate a product. I can understand big problems like a diaper ripping all the time, switching to cloth, poor customer service, etc. Those reasons I can understand for complaining but we as a specialized community should not be so quick to complain and crucify these companies that actively support us and provide great products whether it is specifically for us or not. I mean can you imagine what diapers you would be stuck with if we didn’t have Bambino Diapers, Secure, Abena, Molicare, or the other premium adult diapers. I am not hating on Depends or anything but I don’t know about you – but I don’t want to be relegated to using Depends or Attends the rest of my life and always worrying about leaks and all the other problems that come with the cheaper adult diapers. Just my thoughts!

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Michael Jackson and His Money Hungry Family

Adrian — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:25:52 +0000

OK, so I know this post is completely off-topic but I just had to vent my opinion on this. As much as I think Michael Jackson was a terrific actor/performer and did more than anyone else could do for the music industry – his family is absolutely the most disgusting people out there. Michael was all about the fans and wanting to make everyone else happy – but, his whole family is just money-hungry and looking for attention. We may never know exactly what happened to Michael Jackson that led to his death but what if it was just completely accidental…I mean, Joe Jackson last night on Larry King Live talking about conspiracy this and conspiracy that. These people are just trying to stir the pot. This is exactly how possibly innocent people get demonized in this society. Every time I turn around they are doing some stupid interview and talking about the same garbage…and you better believe they are getting paid to do these interviews. I understand they want “justice” for their son/brother/whatever but there might not be this huge conspiracy and what not they are talking about. His family I think is just stretching this out because the more publicity, controversy, whatever they cause = more money for them. Its really unfortunate because Michael Jackson was completely opposite from his greedy family members. His family members aren’t humble nor do they use any sense of compassion. They don’t care if they ruin other people’s lives possibly by dragging and calling out all these people in Jackson’s life just because they are theorizing some mass conspiracy. Lets just slander everyone’s name with little proof of anything just because I don’t like these people.

OK, I am done venting. I could rant all day about the specifics and more about Michael Jackson’s family but I would just be boring you I know, completely off topic but some people want to know what I think about outside of the ABDL world and well this is just one of those things that disgusts me because I feel Michael Jackson’s family is completely emberrassing what Michael Jackson stood for.

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My Opinion of Non-Incontinent Diaper Users

Adrian — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:21:49 +0000

My opinion of people who wear diapers and are not incontinent is not negative at all. Just because I am incontinent does not mean I don’t enjoy the same thing about wearing diapers as the rest of the community. While, I came to love diapers probably in a different way than most of you as I grew up wearing them while many other ABDLs stumbled upon them or somehow found a love for wearing diapers. While, I don’t regard my love for diapers as “fetish” because I do not focus on them or see them as a sexual object or in a sexual way. I see it as more of enjoyment, fun, comfort, security, and also a little bit of fashion! But, I recognize many people in the community do not see it like this solely and do see it in a more sexual way or in other ways. I am a very free and open person and I do not judge others. My opinion of people who wear diapers that don’t need them is that I am happy for you and glad you found something that makes you feel good, so long as you are not hurting anyone else. I am a big believer in not letting diapers or any other “fetish” or what not cause a major hindrance on your social life.

I have a strong connection to the ABDL community and I find us very different from other communities. This adult baby and diaper lover community is different kind of community because it doesn’t completely center around sexual connotations and ideas. Many people who wear diapers are just doing it for the comfort, security, sounds, etc. This is a far-cry from many other “fetish” or communities in my opinion because they focus more on the sexual side while the ABDL community does not focus on that as much. Which, in my opinion makes us special and an outlier among all the communities. I am honestly proud to be part of the ABDL community and to meet so many wonderful people. And because I am feeling good – I included a recent photo below!

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Diapers at Work

Adrian — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:05:36 +0000

Since I am sitting at work right now I figured I would blog about what it’s like wearing a diaper at work while I am actually doing it. Well, I must say it’s very comforting when you first get into work and know that you have a nice fresh diaper on that will protect you the rest of the day. Plus, it provides a little bit of a cushion for those people like me that are sitting a significant portion of the day. Also, I will say I am the type of person that sort of likes to hear that crinkle sound of the diaper when you get up or walking down the hall. I find it is loud enough for me to hear but not loud enough for really others to take notice.

For those of you scared to wear to work – I would say it’s almost impossible to be caught unless you try. Now, I am sure this depends on your profession but tucking in your shirt and typical work pants or jeans are typically good enough at concealing the diaper and most of the noise while allowing you to get the satisfaction of wearing a diaper to work. If you have any questions about wearing a diaper to work then feel free to ask.

Wearing a diaper to work in my opinion almost increases productivity because it just makes you feel good and when you are comforted and feel good then I find I do my work quicker and more efficient. Not to mention the fact it saves you trips to the restroom especiall if it is not conveniently available to you (I.e right across the hall). Just my two cents though – thoughts?

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Satisfaction of a Messy Diaper

Adrian — Fri, 08 May 2009 16:11:12 +0000

I have been meaning to write about this topic for some time now but never got around to it because I always thought of something else or had something else to write. But, first off, some people seem to think that just because I am incontinent means that the whole “diaper loving” thing goes out the window and does not exist for me. They are correct AT FIRST, when I was younger I will admit that diapers were a burden on me but then coming to the realization that they were going to be a part of my life – you learn to deal with something and make the absolute best out of it. So, slowly from between middle school and the end of high school I became more and more accepting and loving of diapers. And, it just grew from there. So, the aspects that many typical diaper lovers and adult babies enjoy – I enjoy most of them as well. I love the feeling of a wet diaper, having a diaper change, the crinkle noise, and the feel of a messy diaper. I am going to try and describe what it is about a messy diaper that I like and makes me feel satisfied, I guess you could say.

A messy diaper for many is probably is the ultimate babyish feeling when wearing diapers because it represents the ultimate loss of control and needing to be changed. That is probably one of the main reasons I love the feeling of a messy diaper. When you mess in your diaper its a feeling of satisfaction because now you have done the ultimate babyish thing. There you are sitting in a poopy diaper needing someone to change you. I like that feeling. I am lucky that I have Peter to be there whenever I do accidentally poop my diaper. He makes sure to take care of everything because he knows I like when he takes control in situations like that. So, here is how it goes down a lot of times. I come home from work and typically he gets home before I do so he is watching TV (usually sports lol) and I just come in and put my stuff down and kiss him “Hello”. Then, I usually get on the computer and check everything and for some reason that period of the day (evening) is a trigger for something in me to poop. Sometimes I feel it kind of coming and sometimes I don’t – if you don’t have fecal incontinence then its an extremely hard feeling to describe when you have to poop. You can’t control it but sometimes know it is coming. So, that is a big time when I mess my diaper and Peter knows to check me a lot of times around that time based on history. So, I will go start making dinner and he will usually wander into the kitchen and pull back my diaper and check me. Which, by the way is probably one of my FAVORITE feelings is just the act of having him check me. Then, when he knows I pooped my diaper he will let me finish what I am doing and change me. But, I will say that I don’t like being in a poopy diaper too long because it can get uncomfortable and I am not the biggest fan of the smell. I like the bulky feeling at first but once you start moving around and sit down and a few times – it can become uncomfortable with the fecal matter against my butt. So, I typically like to be changed if possible within 30-40 minutes of messing my diaper. But, it is more the satisfaction of feeling babyish and the needing to be changed that really makes me love it. I mean, I do like the feeling of a poopy diaper physically, but I like the babyish mentality of it more. Sort of hard to describe, honestly. But, hopefully I got my point across…Oh, and hopefully you enjoyed the photo I included with this post.

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The United States ABDL Community

Adrian — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 06:49:14 +0000

I have been asked by many people outside the United States what the ABDL community is like here. To be honest, I have never truly participated in an ABDL ‘meeting’ or anything of that sort. I have met up with another girl that wears diapers before and I have met a few other women who have actually had to wear diapers from incontinence (met them at an incontinence support group a long time ago). I have seen quite a few postings for the US in regards to meetings and ‘munches’. I think there is even a group that gets together and goes camping.

I live in North Carolina and I know there is a group that meets about an hour and half or so away from me once a month. I mean I would say there are multiple meeting opportunities but I honestly have trouble making them because I quite busy or have other obligations I have to attend to. Plus, hearing certain peoples talk online and through message boards saying extremely inappropriate stuff as well as how mean people can be makes me very cautious about just showing up to these things. Unfortunately, as with any group, not just ABDLs – there are always those select few that ruin the ‘fun’ for many of us. Not to say I would never meet other ABDLs but I am the type of person that would want to not only talk online to someone before I met them anywhere but also over the phone just to get a sense of who it is. You never can be too careful who you meet nowadays.

Honestly, I wish there was a central ‘base’ online where people could easily setup meetings and times of get togethers so that all ABDLs could check it and setup times or look if anything is going on near them. It would have to be something that is very universally known among ABDLs so everyone used it otherwise it would just disappear and not be very succesful. I thought about trying to set something like that up but, not exactly sure how. I think it would be neat though and I think it would facilitate things for people trying to meet other ABDLs.

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What Do You Think?

Adrian — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 00:04:20 +0000

So, I have been meaning to make this post for awhile but I am just wondering on what people’s thoughts are on what I can add/do to make this blog a better blog. I really want this blog to grow and grow everyday and I know there are a lot smarter people out there than me so what does everyone suggest? Is there something I can do to make this blog a little more interactive or more vibrant? Obviously, diaper things happen everyday but I figured people would like to hear about other stuff sometimes or experience other things so I am just sort of wanting to hear from everyone on what they think I should do to make this blog grow? Hope to get some good comments. Thanks!

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The Perfect Diaper Position

Adrian — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 00:20:53 +0000

I wanted to share my experience of what I like to call “The Perfect Diaper Position”. When I refer to this I am referring to the best position I lay to sit/lay/stand that makes me feel the best when it comes to having a diaper on. Now, I am not the biggest AB in the world as some may know (I am more of a DL) but I do like certain AB aspects. My perfect position is laying on my stomach with just a nice fresh Bambino Diaper on and my sports bra while on top of a nice made up bed. I love it…when my bed is all made up and room is all clean and just laying on top of my nice made up bed with a fresh thick diaper on. I typically will just fall asleep for a little bit and take a nap maybe during the day after my workout or something. To many this may not seem very AB but doing this really does something to me inside. It makes me have this indescribable feeling of being ‘babyish’ because my diaper butt is technically sticking up so if I have an accident whether it be a wet or messy diaper that Peter will just be able to come in while I am napping and pull back my diaper and check me. Its really hard to describe but this combination of not only the position and comfort but mixed with emotions and experiences with this makes this my killer perfect combination of making me feel like a baby with a nice thick diaper on. My room is typically set at the perfect temperature so being able to sleep on top of all the covers is easily possible to me because my bed is so important to me in regards to coziness.

While, I have a few other positions that make me feel very babyish, this one probably does it for me the most. It is one of my favorite things as I love not wearing pants around my place because there is just something about my little diapered butt showing that I actually like. I know, strange. Its strange because I like the little outpouching sometimes that the Bambino Diaper makes especially when you first put it on where it actually looks like you pooped in it – but you didn’t (at least not yet hehe) but I don’t know why I like that little minute detail about the diaper but I do. I guarantee though there are little quirky but specific things that many other ABDL’s out there love about their diapers or the position they sit/lay/stand when having a diaper on. Feel free to share your thoughts with me as I really do love hearing from others.

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The Diaper Scent

Adrian — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 17:07:40 +0000

I personally know that I use to love how a pampers or huggies diaper use to smell. They still give off a light scent but not like they use to. I personally would love a product to come out in the ABDL community that has a baby scent to it. I think this product would do extremely well in the ABDL community – atleast I know I would buy it. As is with all my diapers sitting in my closet or in a drawer – I would love to be able to open my closet or open my drawer to a light wiff of a nice baby scent to it. Nothing to strong of course but just a little something – ya know?

Yes, I am aware you can just throw some baby powder around and sort of get the same effect but that is sort of messy and being the neat freak that I am I wouldn’t like baby powder thrown all around my house or room. Yeh, I am a neat freak…you really ought to see my closet. All the diapers are perfectly stacked up and in nice little perfect heights to look super organized. They are also organized by the type of diaper. But, that is me I guess – Ms. Neat Freak.

I am one of those people that is not a pure AB, but I do like to engage in a tiny but AB activities. I am probably 20% AB, and 80% DL when it comes to classifying that. But, that is why I think the whole diaper scent thing would be great and bringing that back would I think really be a great idea! Just my thoughts though – maybe you all think the same?

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