My opinion of people who wear diapers and are not incontinent is not negative at all. Just because I am incontinent does not mean I don’t enjoy the same thing about wearing diapers as the rest of the community. While, I came to love diapers probably in a different way than most of you as I grew up wearing them while many other ABDLs stumbled upon them or somehow found a love for wearing diapers. While, I don’t regard my love for diapers as “fetish” because I do not focus on them or see them as a sexual object or in a sexual way. I see it as more of enjoyment, fun, comfort, security, and also a little bit of fashion! But, I recognize many people in the community do not see it like this solely and do see it in a more sexual way or in other ways. I am a very free and open person and I do not judge others. My opinion of people who wear diapers that don’t need them is that I am happy for you and glad you found something that makes you feel good, so long as you are not hurting anyone else. I am a big believer in not letting diapers or any other “fetish” or what not cause a major hindrance on your social life.
I have a strong connection to the ABDL community and I find us very different from other communities. This adult baby and diaper lover community is different kind of community because it doesn’t completely center around sexual connotations and ideas. Many people who wear diapers are just doing it for the comfort, security, sounds, etc. This is a far-cry from many other “fetish” or communities in my opinion because they focus more on the sexual side while the ABDL community does not focus on that as much. Which, in my opinion makes us special and an outlier among all the communities. I am honestly proud to be part of the ABDL community and to meet so many wonderful people. And because I am feeling good – I included a recent photo below!
Since I am sitting at work right now I figured I would blog about what it’s like wearing a diaper at work while I am actually doing it. Well, I must say it’s very comforting when you first get into work and know that you have a nice fresh diaper on that will protect you the rest of the day. Plus, it provides a little bit of a cushion for those people like me that are sitting a significant portion of the day. Also, I will say I am the type of person that sort of likes to hear that crinkle sound of the diaper when you get up or walking down the hall. I find it is loud enough for me to hear but not loud enough for really others to take notice.
For those of you scared to wear to work – I would say it’s almost impossible to be caught unless you try. Now, I am sure this depends on your profession but tucking in your shirt and typical work pants or jeans are typically good enough at concealing the diaper and most of the noise while allowing you to get the satisfaction of wearing a diaper to work. If you have any questions about wearing a diaper to work then feel free to ask.
Wearing a diaper to work in my opinion almost increases productivity because it just makes you feel good and when you are comforted and feel good then I find I do my work quicker and more efficient. Not to mention the fact it saves you trips to the restroom especiall if it is not conveniently available to you (I.e right across the hall). Just my two cents though – thoughts?
I have been meaning to write about this topic for some time now but never got around to it because I always thought of something else or had something else to write. But, first off, some people seem to think that just because I am incontinent means that the whole “diaper loving” thing goes out the window and does not exist for me. They are correct AT FIRST, when I was younger I will admit that diapers were a burden on me but then coming to the realization that they were going to be a part of my life – you learn to deal with something and make the absolute best out of it. So, slowly from between middle school and the end of high school I became more and more accepting and loving of diapers. And, it just grew from there. So, the aspects that many typical diaper lovers and adult babies enjoy – I enjoy most of them as well. I love the feeling of a wet diaper, having a diaper change, the crinkle noise, and the feel of a messy diaper. I am going to try and describe what it is about a messy diaper that I like and makes me feel satisfied, I guess you could say.
A messy diaper for many is probably is the ultimate babyish feeling when wearing diapers because it represents the ultimate loss of control and needing to be changed. That is probably one of the main reasons I love the feeling of a messy diaper. When you mess in your diaper its a feeling of satisfaction because now you have done the ultimate babyish thing. There you are sitting in a poopy diaper needing someone to change you. I like that feeling. I am lucky that I have Peter to be there whenever I do accidentally poop my diaper. He makes sure to take care of everything because he knows I like when he takes control in situations like that. So, here is how it goes down a lot of times. I come home from work and typically he gets home before I do so he is watching TV (usually sports lol) and I just come in and put my stuff down and kiss him “Hello”. Then, I usually get on the computer and check everything and for some reason that period of the day (evening) is a trigger for something in me to poop. Sometimes I feel it kind of coming and sometimes I don’t – if you don’t have fecal incontinence then its an extremely hard feeling to describe when you have to poop. You can’t control it but sometimes know it is coming. So, that is a big time when I mess my diaper and Peter knows to check me a lot of times around that time based on history. So, I will go start making dinner and he will usually wander into the kitchen and pull back my diaper and check me. Which, by the way is probably one of my FAVORITE feelings is just the act of having him check me. Then, when he knows I pooped my diaper he will let me finish what I am doing and change me. But, I will say that I don’t like being in a poopy diaper too long because it can get uncomfortable and I am not the biggest fan of the smell. I like the bulky feeling at first but once you start moving around and sit down and a few times – it can become uncomfortable with the fecal matter against my butt. So, I typically like to be changed if possible within 30-40 minutes of messing my diaper. But, it is more the satisfaction of feeling babyish and the needing to be changed that really makes me love it. I mean, I do like the feeling of a poopy diaper physically, but I like the babyish mentality of it more. Sort of hard to describe, honestly. But, hopefully I got my point across…Oh, and hopefully you enjoyed the photo I included with this post.
I have been asked by many people outside the United States what the ABDL community is like here. To be honest, I have never truly participated in an ABDL ‘meeting’ or anything of that sort. I have met up with another girl that wears diapers before and I have met a few other women who have actually had to wear diapers from incontinence (met them at an incontinence support group a long time ago). I have seen quite a few postings for the US in regards to meetings and ‘munches’. I think there is even a group that gets together and goes camping.
I live in North Carolina and I know there is a group that meets about an hour and half or so away from me once a month. I mean I would say there are multiple meeting opportunities but I honestly have trouble making them because I quite busy or have other obligations I have to attend to. Plus, hearing certain peoples talk online and through message boards saying extremely inappropriate stuff as well as how mean people can be makes me very cautious about just showing up to these things. Unfortunately, as with any group, not just ABDLs – there are always those select few that ruin the ‘fun’ for many of us. Not to say I would never meet other ABDLs but I am the type of person that would want to not only talk online to someone before I met them anywhere but also over the phone just to get a sense of who it is. You never can be too careful who you meet nowadays.
Honestly, I wish there was a central ‘base’ online where people could easily setup meetings and times of get togethers so that all ABDLs could check it and setup times or look if anything is going on near them. It would have to be something that is very universally known among ABDLs so everyone used it otherwise it would just disappear and not be very succesful. I thought about trying to set something like that up but, not exactly sure how. I think it would be neat though and I think it would facilitate things for people trying to meet other ABDLs.
So, I have been meaning to make this post for awhile but I am just wondering on what people’s thoughts are on what I can add/do to make this blog a better blog. I really want this blog to grow and grow everyday and I know there are a lot smarter people out there than me so what does everyone suggest? Is there something I can do to make this blog a little more interactive or more vibrant? Obviously, diaper things happen everyday but I figured people would like to hear about other stuff sometimes or experience other things so I am just sort of wanting to hear from everyone on what they think I should do to make this blog grow? Hope to get some good comments. Thanks!
I wanted to share my experience of what I like to call “The Perfect Diaper Position”. When I refer to this I am referring to the best position I lay to sit/lay/stand that makes me feel the best when it comes to having a diaper on. Now, I am not the biggest AB in the world as some may know (I am more of a DL) but I do like certain AB aspects. My perfect position is laying on my stomach with just a nice fresh Bambino Diaper on and my sports bra while on top of a nice made up bed. I love it…when my bed is all made up and room is all clean and just laying on top of my nice made up bed with a fresh thick diaper on. I typically will just fall asleep for a little bit and take a nap maybe during the day after my workout or something. To many this may not seem very AB but doing this really does something to me inside. It makes me have this indescribable feeling of being ‘babyish’ because my diaper butt is technically sticking up so if I have an accident whether it be a wet or messy diaper that Peter will just be able to come in while I am napping and pull back my diaper and check me. Its really hard to describe but this combination of not only the position and comfort but mixed with emotions and experiences with this makes this my killer perfect combination of making me feel like a baby with a nice thick diaper on. My room is typically set at the perfect temperature so being able to sleep on top of all the covers is easily possible to me because my bed is so important to me in regards to coziness.
While, I have a few other positions that make me feel very babyish, this one probably does it for me the most. It is one of my favorite things as I love not wearing pants around my place because there is just something about my little diapered butt showing that I actually like. I know, strange. Its strange because I like the little outpouching sometimes that the Bambino Diaper makes especially when you first put it on where it actually looks like you pooped in it – but you didn’t (at least not yet hehe) but I don’t know why I like that little minute detail about the diaper but I do. I guarantee though there are little quirky but specific things that many other ABDL’s out there love about their diapers or the position they sit/lay/stand when having a diaper on. Feel free to share your thoughts with me as I really do love hearing from others.
I personally know that I use to love how a pampers or huggies diaper use to smell. They still give off a light scent but not like they use to. I personally would love a product to come out in the ABDL community that has a baby scent to it. I think this product would do extremely well in the ABDL community – atleast I know I would buy it. As is with all my diapers sitting in my closet or in a drawer – I would love to be able to open my closet or open my drawer to a light wiff of a nice baby scent to it. Nothing to strong of course but just a little something – ya know?
Yes, I am aware you can just throw some baby powder around and sort of get the same effect but that is sort of messy and being the neat freak that I am I wouldn’t like baby powder thrown all around my house or room. Yeh, I am a neat freak…you really ought to see my closet. All the diapers are perfectly stacked up and in nice little perfect heights to look super organized. They are also organized by the type of diaper. But, that is me I guess – Ms. Neat Freak.
I am one of those people that is not a pure AB, but I do like to engage in a tiny but AB activities. I am probably 20% AB, and 80% DL when it comes to classifying that. But, that is why I think the whole diaper scent thing would be great and bringing that back would I think really be a great idea! Just my thoughts though – maybe you all think the same?
I wanted to link to an article that I thought represented the thought of adult diapers to many others around the world and the notion of how they are not such a “taboo” thing. Here is the link: Dongfang Billy Wears Adult Diapers . It is just a article about a famous artist that was diagnosed with leukemia and as a PRECAUTION was instructed by doctors to wear adult diapers. Honestly, how many doctors around here or much less people would be willing to wear an adult diaper out of precaution. Most people in the US won’t consider wearing an adult diaper unless they are practically leaking feces out of themselves or wetting uncontrollably everyday.
It goes to show that even someone who is in the public eye a lot is not afraid to let others know that he is wearing diapers. Yes, it is for medical reasons but the notion of how ‘free’ and ‘open’ he is about it goes to show the mindset of people in places like Asia. I know I am making a huge generalization here but when do you see articles like this in the USA news unless its riddled with negativity or involving some sort of crime.
He also is continuing to teach a fitness class even though he has to wear a diaper for it. And his reason…it will make him exercise basically. There is not even a mention of emberassment there. Most people if they have to wear a diaper will hide that diaper like they are hiding gold. The only way this wearing of diapers is going to stop being an extreme taboo is if the people who must wear diapers and who enjoy wearing diapers act like it is not a big deal – as well as not blatantly doing stupid acts such as robbing a store wearing a diaper (gives us all a bad name). Just thought the article was quite interesting and thought I would share incase you hadn’t heard.
Ever since I have worn diapers even though I do not care much what others think, I have always dreamt of ways to bring the adult diaper phenomenon into mainstream society. I truly think it can be done. I would love to be able to normalize in society to a greater extent the wearing of adult diapers. I think this can be done. Signs of it are already present in societies such as Japan wear adult diapers are way more normal for such practical reasons as long train rides. So, why not in other places?
Though most people will not say anything if they ‘catch’ you wearing a diaper as if they have any conscious or understanding they would most likely assume its for personal health reasons. But, I truly believe that the adult diaper wearing notion can be brought into the limelight for more practical reasons and deserve more understandings.
This not only requires a mindset change from people outside the community but also a ABDL community effort to represent adult diapers and the wearing of adult diapers in a more light hearted and practical manner. It will require a grassroots campaign from everyone from diaper product makers such as Bambino Diapers to the community of ABDL’s. I am determined to bring the ABDL community into a better light with mainstream society and I plan to make great efforts to do this. I will be keeping everyone updated on things I will be doing and have done on my blog so stay tuned because this is going to happen – I am determined.
I recently have been getting a fair amount of comments from people that have varying disabilities from Multiple Sclerosis to Cron’s disease. While myself and many others do suffer from incontinence – suffering from a more disabling disease such as multiple sclerosis presents new and unique problems when it comes to diapers. I am very sympathetic to people with such diseases as life presents a great deal of difficulties not only in the diaper area but also in other areas.
What amazes me is the fact that I have been getting a fair amount of comments and emails from people that were never involved in the ABDL community but have these diseases and stumbled across my review of Bambino Diapers. I have gotten a great deal of praise for leading them to a diaper that solves a great deal of the problems that store-brand diapers just don’t solve. This makes me feel very warm and fuzzy inside for multiple reasons. First, I helped someone which I always enjoy doing and solving their problem by referring them to a product that can truly help them. Second, some of them have even discovered the ABDL community which they never knew existed and have found a level of comfort in conversing with people that are in their same situation or at least can relate on a disabled or interest level, with interests being diapers.
Getting comments and emails really encourages me a lot in what I do especially when I help people that need it the most. Whether its referring them to a specific product or just giving them someone to converse and talk to and relate to – I really truly do enjoy helping people out. I just wanted to share that as I am a big believer in promoting the goodness within the ABDL community and the amazing products that not only enhance our community but also can benefit others outside our community.
My name is Adrian Surley and I am 24 years old. I graduated from the University of Florida and I am a big time Gator's fan. I wear diapers full time because I am incontinent. I have come to accept it and really look at the great things about diapers. More
