I have long been a supporter for some sort of universal ABDL symbol being made. There was a ‘pin’ designed a while back but it was so plain and boring. I truly think that a creative symbol that is not blatently obvious needs to be designed so as to represent the ABDL community. I would love to be able to spearhead this movement but I am definitely go to not only need ideas but also someone who is very experienced in graphic design. I am descent at it (a lot better than the average Joe) but if we are going to do it I think it should be done right. I was thinking about possibly having 2-4 designs made and then hosting a vote on my blog for which everyone thinks is the best one. Obviously, it has to be something people aren’t going to be afraid to wear (i.e. an image of adult in a diaper lol) but it has to represent US as a community as a whole.
It would be awesome to be able to walk down the street and see a t-shirt, pin, hat, etc. with this symbol on it somehow and know what it means. I think it would significantly enhance the community but also interaction and socialization within the community. Let me know what you all think as I really am interested in getting this going!
Hi all. Well, I have been getting some pretty hateful comments from a person lately from Aunt Elli or use to be from them – not exactly sure who they are. But, basically he/she is saying very rude comments about how I am promoting IMABDL and bashing Aunt Elli and sites like that. Also, he/she claims there are Aunt Elli pictures and wellpadded pictures on IMABDL – which since all photos are user uploaded we do our best to moderate them. But, first off – I am not the main owner of IMABDL nor am I really an “owner” – I participate and can moderate but I have no ownership part in it. Second, it states on the frontpage of IMABDL that we DO NOT ALLOW copyrighted material (go read on the frontpage yourself). It also states in the page that if you find a copyrighted image or an image you would like removed then to please report it and it will be removed which I have personally done on multiple occasions and it is no big deal.
Look, not everyone is going to like IMABDL just like not everyone likes Aunt Elli. I never insulted their site I just said that the payment fee (whether it is $13 or $19.99 like a lot of sites per month) doesn’t seem like the best thing to some people because their updates are not that often when your only paying for a month. But, I never insulted them or bashed them. I also said its all preference. SOME PEOPLE may like that setup and then some people may like the one-time lifetime fee like IMABDL offers. It is truly saddening to me because those were not my intentions to bash any other site…I was just telling a perspective that a lot of others seem to share.
If there are copyrighted then they either slipped by moderation or someone cut off the copyright on it which unless myself or the other moderators just recognize the type of photo we don’t know whether its from a site like Aunt Elli, Wellpadded, etc. But, everyone must understand that we are updated daily thanks to our thousands of users that participate and upload great content. If they choose to upload copyrighted material all we can do is do our best to moderate to the best of our ability what images get through. But, its really not a big deal to remove the copyrighted images from a site like Aunt Elli – I would just have hoped they would have reported the image because obviously they are going to know their photos better then I or anyone else will.
Myself, nor IMABDL is trying to make enemies with anyone and we do our best to keep people happy. Basically, since I got these hateful comments I have been PERSONALLY trying to go through the thousands of photos on IMABDL trying to weed out any photos slipped by. I just wish people would be a little more understanding and realize that not everyone is trying to be damaging or mean about something. Don’t jump to conclusions so quickly, because it might just be a honest mistake or something unknown to them. Even though I am not an owner of IMABDL I am willing to help to the best of my ability to fix any problems one may have, regardless of what it is.
Here is a photo we took going out with some friends to a bar on Monday night. Monday night football – heck yeh! Those pants are from Hollister and as you can tell very low rise that is why so much of the diaper is showing when my shirt is pulled up. But, I love those pants. We don’t go out to bars to often because I am not the biggest drinker…I might have a glass of wine or one beer but I must admit I am not a big alcohol fan and if I do drink – I like fruity drinks
Also, on a side note – some of my good friends from IMABDL have a huge surprise for the IMABDL community coming within the next day or two. I was able to test it out today and it is amazing but its a whole new add-on feature rich social network. It will be included in the membership but it will be basically a whole other site you will get access to as well (like a partner site). Its very clean, neat, and organized. I am very excited for them and the whole IMABDL community. Cheers!
Ok, I decided to make a post about the subject of showing your face in this community. I have become seemingly frustrated of the number of comments/request/etc to this matter and I see it all over the community especially for other women. First off, the people who say this really need to think about what they are saying before they say it. They are basically asking that person to open themselves up to the internet…the internet for Christ sake. Where once its on the internet…its everywhere. You can password protect it, copyright, whatever – it will spread. For people, like myself, who are in jobs that cannot afford to be ‘unmasked’ so publicly in the ABDL community for guarantee of losing their/my job. While, yes, I must wear diapers because I am incontinent and many co-workers know – they don’t know I am involved in a community of people who love diapers and some who find it sexually gratifying.
While I will stick up for my fellow ABDL friend – I will not jeopardize my career and my life and relationships I have formed personally and publicly just because a few people want my face shown for whatever reason. I don’t mind taking photos where you can see a piece of my face, my hair, my upper body whatever – but atleast understand a degree of privacy in not showing my face as well as understand other people’s reasons.
Some women and people in this community show their faces and may have jobs similar to mine and don’t find a problem with it. And I say more power to them. You are welcome to call me a coward all you want and thats fine – I will take that. But, it will not stop me from blogging and it will not stop me from taking photos and it will not stop me from trying to educate, entertain, and please the readers and fans of my blog, photos, and posts.
I have been using a certain kind of oil/lotion in the shower that is made by Johnson and Johnson that I am sure atleast a few people have heard of. I absolutely love it too, but maybe thats because I am just a girl. I highly recommend it though to anyone. Its actually called Johnson and Johnson Melt Away Stress Massaging Moisturizing Softoil. I absolutely adore this stuff. I put it on right as a I am about to get out of the shower and it makes my skin so soft and smell so good. It is quite potent I will admit but to me it helps relax me while also has a little touch of a baby smell to it. Yes, it is a little more of a ‘girly’ smell but its NOT flowery or anything like that.
Its absolutely perfect I think. Especially, in my case what I do a lot of times after a hard day is I will take a nice hot shower and put this oil on right as I am getting out of the shower. Then, I will put on a nice thick diaper such as a Bambino or even an Attends feels good a lot of times (Attends fan as well). Then, typically I will put my onesie on and just lay on our nice cozy couch and watch some TV in the dark. Ahhh, just thinking about it makes me relax. Try it sometime, its absolutely perfect especially with this stuff. You can buy it at Walmart or Target or anywhere like that. Its pretty easy to come by. Give it a shot – I highly recommend it though.
I felt like making a post about the numerous “same ol’, same ol’” diaper paysites that keep popping up. I think they have to be the most ridiculous sites. I don’t want to “per se” bash them but everyone knows the reason people pay to see the photos, to see these women (models) in diapers. These models that 99% probably don’t like diapers and are doing it for a paycheck. I am not one to say what someone is entertained by but these sites are purely starting to get annoying and they always look the same. PLUS, they charge and arm and a leg for one measley month of service where you may get 1-3 updates during that month. Some are worse than that – Aunt Elli, FlBabyGirls, Baby-Doll, and the list goes on. You pay around $20 for these sites A MONTH. That to me is sort of ridiculous for what they offer. I would much rather pay for a site once and be done with it not worry about being charged again or whatever. Also, I don’t want to see models in diapers – I would rather see a real person that actually enjoys wearing them or has to wear them and has come accustomed to them. Being a 24 year old girl, I don’t get to see too many variety photos of real, if you want to use the word ‘amateur’ women wearing diapers like me.
Its just truly sad because so many people coming into the ABDL scene see these big name sites like the Aunt Elli and DiaperGal and all that and they believe it. Which, can be good for your own personal fantasizing, but I think personally it really henders a lot of people’s way of thinking because they see these gorgeous models in them and it makes them really almost feel depressed and sad because they want to have somebody like that so bad. This causes them I think to lose track of what they really should be looking for in a relationship not just the diaper aspect. Yeh, I know thats really psychological and all but truly – there are going to be some people reading this and think about it may realize that may be happening to them.
My opinion is that if you have to join a paysite or you want to, try to join one that provides access to amateur photos and is updated a lot more often. And for God sake, don’t pay 19.95 or more for one month of access, lol. There are a number of good sites out there that don’t cost an arm and a leg to join that gives you access to huge databases of amateur photos that are neatly organized. Off the top of my head a major one is IMABDL.com (www.imabdl.com). There are a couple other ones in which I will have to lookup. In no way am I saying go sign up there now, I am just saying for people thinking about joining certain paysites, you may want to rethink certain ones and go for a cheaper one rather than a really expensive one that doesn’t offer all that much besides the same ol’ stuff. I am not looking to get bashed on this post but I have a feeling I will somehow but this is MY opinion as a girl and I can’t really know all the time what a guy thinks so…go easy on me if you disagree lol.
I thought I would do a little bit different review today. Instead of a diaper I thought I would review one of the onesies from CosynDry. I have two onesies actually from them and they are basically the same just different designs but the one I have in particular is this one below and will be the one I am actually reviewing.
No, thats not me. Though I wish my hair looked as silky and smooth as hers does. Its just a model off of their website. I will take a photo soon of me in one of their onesies and put it in the photography section when I get a chance. Alright, well the onesie I would have to say is extremely comfortable and fitting. Some of the onesies from other places I have tried are to big for me as I am descently skinny and most are made for men. The size Small fits me beautifully. Obviously it fits a little more snug when I have a thicker diaper on like a Bambino Diaper or Abri-Form X-plus or something like that. But, it fits wonderfully. The designs on it are super cute and definitely give you that babyish feel when you snap up the crotch. The fabric is very soft and very snug feeling. The leg openings actually fit my legs pretty well and are not too big. My thighs are not very big but they are also not the skinniest (in my opinion) but the onesie fits it very well. I have worn it to bed multiple nights and its not too hot and definitely keeps you a little warmer on cool nights. Overall, this is probably the best onesie that I have and will definitely continue to order more in the future. Obviously, everyone’s body is different but being 5′5″ and 112 lbs the onesie fits me good in a size small if thats any sort of measurement for others to compare with. I am pretty skinny (athletic build).
You wouldn’t believe the number of emails and contacts I receive asking me about poopy diapers and how to deal with them. Honestly, there is no simple and magical answer that I can give to many of you in an email. So, I figured I would try to explain myself the best way I could about how I deal with my poopy and messy diapers personally in a public scene such as the office, mall, or whatever.
First, I am fecal incontinent so its not like I sit there and choose when to mess my diaper so it doesn’t always happen in the most convenient of places. Things have to be dealt with orderly and you must be prepared first off. My first advice is buy a pair of comfortable plastic pants that fit over your diaper comfortably. This not only drastically holds in the smell of a poopy diaper but also can add that babyish touch. This step is very important. Try to buy one that is not to tight fitting but tight enough so that it can hold in smells. My next advice is no matter what, if you plan or don’t plan to poop your diaper make sure to always use a lot of baby powder in your diaper to help conceal any smell from a pooped diaper. Another advice that some may choose that works very well is powders like Gold Bond or a generic brand that is used for rashes. It almosts smells like menthol and it feels cool to your bottom for awhile. So, if your not too concerned about smelling like a baby then that might be a good option as the smell of Gold Bond or other similar brands is very effective at masking the smell of a poopy diaper.
My next advice is the clothing you wear can make a big difference. I advise wearing jeans or cargo pants as they are very effective in helping keep the smell of a poopy diaper in until you can change yourself. If you wear shorts or really really loose clothing, its going to be easier for that smell to leak out at a faster rate and thus hit the nose of more passer-bys. And lastly a large part of why poop smells is from the food you eat. Artificial flavors and chemicals as well as meats add to that smell. While I am personally not a vegan or anywhere close to only eating natural foods, try to mix in more natural foods including vegetables that are fresh as well as fruits and try to avoid artificial flavors and chemicals as best you can and this will definitely help keep that smell to a minimal.
My advice works very well for me and everyone is different. But, there is no substitute to getting to a restroom or wherever and changing the messy diaper and not sitting in it for 4 hours. If you have specific questions please leave a comment and I will attempt to answer them as best I can by responding to the comment.
Attends have always been one of the most famous diapers out there for diaper lovers. Granted, the old Attends were way better than the new attends. The old attends with their 3 blue tapes and soft outer covering and a lot thicker than the newer attends. Perfection right? Yep, they were one of the best diapers of the time. But, now Attends has multiple different styles of attends and today I am going to review one of my favorite Attends diaper in the diaper line.
Attends with waistband have 3 tapes on either side and a nice waistband to hold the diaper closer to your body. They fit well and I have never experienced the cutting into my legs from the leg gatherings that many other diapers have done to me. They aren’t the thickest of diapers but are thicker than depends but thinner than Bambino diapers. They are a perfect diaper to wear to work or out to dinner or whatever you may be doing which is why they are my #1 normal diaper that I wear around. Bambino’s are probably my favorite diaper but in regards to wearing a diaper around the majority of the time – its this diaper. It is plastic-backed meaning it does NOT have the cloth-outer covering that I hate so much. I like to hear the crinkle and let me tell you – this diaper knows how to crinkle. In regards to how much the diaper can hold I would say it can hold 2 good wettings before you need to change which is probably pretty good for most people that don’t unleash a million floods on their diaper. In regards to pooping in the diaper, it has ample space for the poopy to go (granted not as much as Bambino) but plenty. The diaper is soft plastic, not as soft as the soft as the old one, but soft. In my honest opinion, if you are looking for a good everyday diaper than this would be a phenomenal choice as its not too thin but not too thick either – it can be easily hidden under clothes. If I were rating it on a overall scale of 1 to 5 with 5 being the best I would probably give it a 3.75.
I know this may be a little bit off topic but I just truly had to post this. Â Listening to this song personally is probably one of the most inspirational things I have heard. Â Some of you may have seen this already but let me go ahead and post it for everyone to see. Â Here is a little background on it: A bunch of celebrities got together to sing an absolutely amazing song to kick off a worldwide event to “Stand Up to Cancer” – I know this has nothing to do with diapers but look we are all human and this can effect everyone no matter what so I believe its important. Â Check out the video and song:
I just thought I would share this with everyone as its meaningful to me and I thought some of you out there may find it as touching as I do. Â Enjoy.
My name is Adrian Surley and I am 24 years old. I graduated from the University of Florida and I am a big time Gator's fan. I wear diapers full time because I am incontinent. I have come to accept it and really look at the great things about diapers. More
I have been using a certain kind of oil/lotion in the shower that is made by Johnson and Johnson that I am sure atleast a few people have heard of. I absolutely love it too, but maybe thats because I am just a girl. I highly recommend it though to anyone. Its actually called Johnson and Johnson Melt Away Stress Massaging Moisturizing Softoil. I absolutely adore this stuff. I put it on right as a I am about to get out of the shower and it makes my skin so soft and smell so good. It is quite potent I will admit but to me it helps relax me while also has a little touch of a baby smell to it. Yes, it is a little more of a ‘girly’ smell but its NOT flowery or anything like that.
Attends have always been one of the most famous diapers out there for diaper lovers. Granted, the old Attends were way better than the new attends. The old attends with their 3 blue tapes and soft outer covering and a lot thicker than the newer attends. Perfection right? Yep, they were one of the best diapers of the time. But, now Attends has multiple different styles of attends and today I am going to review one of my favorite Attends diaper in the diaper line.
